"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Melbournian wingers !

Iceberg_Itsover

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Sup all,
Any Dj's from Australia melbourne around in here?
I'm looking for a cool outgoing wingman to partner with and go sarging or just to have some fun together and discuss stuff, we can help each other out being wingmans.
I'm looking for a change, i usually go solo to pick up chicks, wanna try winging it and stuff.
If anyone is interested just message me or reply in here.

Cheers!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alittude

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Hey mate I'd love to help ya but I'm still only 16 . A year and a couple of months and i'll be there haha.
 

Iceberg_Itsover

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haha o yea my bad forgot to say, im 21.
haha alittude i guess ill wait a few years for ya :rockon:
 

Spookey

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hey,
yeah I'm from Melbourne- South Easter Suburbs.
I'm sort of new, iv read some of the stuff but have been in a r'ship for a while, which I'm getting out of.

where do you guys go to club wise?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lust

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I'll be in Melbourne from Sunday the 27th of May. If anyone wants to do some Day Game, please PM me ASAP.

Be quick, as I'll only be in Melbourne for 4 days, and really want to meet some DJs there.

I should mention that I am young, 15, but can pull older chicks.

My journal is here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116591

If you are interested, PM asap.
 

Boschy

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Sorry, I'm at work.

Still, if you want to have an extended lunch sarge in the CBD, let me know via PM or direct e-mail. I'll be wearing a suit. :D
 

Mr_Aries

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Anyone from Melbs still up for doin something? I've never been out with fellow DJs and I want to compare and learn some good game :)
 

Boschy

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I've been hibernating during winter but am gearing up for spring and summer. Let's catch up and have a drink mate.
 

Cheatz

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haha i've also been in hibernation mode and feel it's time to step up during my favourite season - spring :)

Spring carnival comming up soon :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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