She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Boschy said:Hmmm 18 year olds. Student night is Thursday nights in the CBD, so anywhere is good...The Loft, Little Flinders St (Velour Bar, Ikon). Should be able to get a list together and do a venue crawl one night. Count me in. Gin Palace is a good place to find some quality chicks. Ditto places like Metropolitan, Establishment (can be quiet), etc. Pubs like Elephant WheelBarrow, Bridies, and Euro Beer Cafe are good for generic younger girls (20-30) because of the covers bands.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah. Viper room and Frostbites are great places on Chapel, but still ain't my scene - too much bass and too f*ckin loud. Lotus bar is on Toorak road, but the bouncers were pretty racist to my mates so I wouldn't be going back there anytime soon. Only luck i had in that area is Evolution on commercial road.[S]alvatore said:Viper Room on Chapel st is a good place to grab girls. Also I think Lotus Bar it's called, can't remember where it's located though? But generally the rest of clubs on Chapel st are full of pill popper drug fu<ks.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.