"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Melbourne Australia DJs?

ubercat

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Hey Guys

I'm in my mid-40s - quite fit - probably look a bit younger. Of course most of my mates are either wifed up or given up.

Looking for a wingman for day game on weekends, to go out of town sarging - malls, farmers markets basically regularly to a few target rich places that are big enough to not get called out on it. Long as its day game I'm open to ideas.

Pls PM me if interested.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BMX

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Next time I make it to Perth, or Australia in general, I'm going to walk around pantless. Easy day.
 
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