"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CoolBlue

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unsatisfied said:
ive made a concious effort to build a small circle of plutonic female friends to use as wing-girls when i go clubbing.
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Here's the problem. Go after Earth girls, not alien girls from Pluto
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You seem like a cool dude, so hopefully you don't take this an insult.

WTF were you thinking with this whole White Knight routine? Did you really think that would make her a good wing? Very very VERY few women are good wings. Most of the women in my experience that have been decent wings were girls I either already banged, then we became good friends after a while OR girls who I had zero attraction to..... even then it was never a good option.

Again I agree with others, I think you wanted this young 'ho bad, but you have learned how to control your emotions to a degree compared to the young 20 year old chump.

Never do this routine again, I'm sure you have already decided that with this experience.





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Sorry but your life sounds more complicated than a chicks.
 
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