"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mega whiteknight problem - need advices from the juans

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CoolBlue

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unsatisfied said:
ive made a concious effort to build a small circle of plutonic female friends to use as wing-girls when i go clubbing.
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Here's the problem. Go after Earth girls, not alien girls from Pluto
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pimp-sicle

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You seem like a cool dude, so hopefully you don't take this an insult.

WTF were you thinking with this whole White Knight routine? Did you really think that would make her a good wing? Very very VERY few women are good wings. Most of the women in my experience that have been decent wings were girls I either already banged, then we became good friends after a while OR girls who I had zero attraction to..... even then it was never a good option.

Again I agree with others, I think you wanted this young 'ho bad, but you have learned how to control your emotions to a degree compared to the young 20 year old chump.

Never do this routine again, I'm sure you have already decided that with this experience.





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Sorry but your life sounds more complicated than a chicks.
 
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