"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ive just this second recieved a txt msn, from a girl that ive mentioned before, and man its fucd up... it confused me for a while, and then i got it , well i think... tell me how you guys think i should respond to this...

hey catch, shall we finish, cus u didnt even seem to wanna speak 2 me on the fone. tb my fone lv nikki...

WTF???? ha ha ha, well shes gonna ring me in about 10 mins, any quick ideas on what to do????

i thought that i should play her up for being stupid, or just say that if she doesnt want to see me then its cool... ime not all that peved about this cause i think shes just being silly, and if she is gunna fck off then its up to her, but i would obviously like to stay with her.. any ideas...????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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be cool b!tch be cool!

:D

dont overthink and let urr instincts guide ya dude... you should know what to do anyways! :D
 
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its all a learning experience bro. The more girls you date, the more you will learn what to do. We can't tell you exactly what to do in a situation like that b/c we are not in it ourselves.

Just tell the damn girl you're going to hang out with her at such and such a time and place
 
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yea guess what stupid old catch did, he only waited up for her to call....well the cow didnt ring, oh no.. it was another msg, ha...
and heres what she told me...

hello catch i am not going home, ime at alans house...

hmmm, those words are the exact words she used... and i get mild feeling that she fcukd him last night....! i cant believe it!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey catch, interesting situation pal, let us know how it goes.

My only advice can be: maintain your composure ;)
 
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well

ime trying to keep my cool man...

i though,( ha ), i thought we had something going, something that would make you.. happy, and.. excited when you wake up in the morning, ever had that feeling?... you know when you tell all your mates about that great girl you like.. and then..

BAAMM!!!!! she ****in hits you where it hurts...

she goes and really does your head in.. one day shes is cool as fcuk, and then, out of nowhere, she starts to show a different side, an imature, manipulative side.. and suddenly changes to nice cute girl into that ho that dont care...

well, if you have read what ive said, and understand how i feel, then it really does leave us two choices...

give her a chance to explain wtf is going on

or

never talk to her again...



and really, i know that most of you guys have been messed around, so then you know that feeling of shock,anger and a sinking feeling in the gut.... a sad feeling...that makes you think why the fcuk do they piss you around... man ime feeling it...

il let you know what happens..
 
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catch mate I know it all too well. you think something good is happening when they're all over you one night, you get the digits, then when you call up they make up some phoney boloney excuse not to hang with you. WTF. trust me i understand the pain.
 
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ime going to give it until next weekend.. if she calls then shes gonna have to beg for me back...

if she dont then ime gonna be free again... (yipeee)... so then,il just forget about her and go get another cutie..
 
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don't get AFC on her, try and twist it on her that she has messed up, and if she is gonna act like a ltitle girl, you don't wanna know.

bnasically, act like you would like to see her, but not if shes gonna act stupid, make her think shes loosing soemthing she wants....

don't chase her with appologies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i called her...

yes i know its what a desperate afc would and i took that into account...

an jeese these kind of situations are wierd... they cloud your mind with too many emotions and stop you from thinking right...

so yes i gave in and called her and she said she had the flew, ( she did sound rough, so i believed her) and tyhats why she hasnt called...

her excuse for sending the msgs was that she thought i was avoiding her and lost interest..wtf!!!

i did what you said not quite there, and turned it into a mistake shes made, and hinted that shes gona loose the great catch if she plays stupid little attention tricks with me..

i dont even know if i still like her now... shes quite immature, and she thinks she can manipulate me by saying she wants to finish, ha ha ha yeah right
 
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