"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Meeting women who aren’t on social media

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Now that I’m in my 30s, I notice that I have no tolerance at all for social media obsessed women. I knew that for a long time but after spending time on dating apps recently it became clear to me that I’m not compatible with those types of women period. I know there are some out there but I don’t cross paths with them.

I’ve spent a lot of time in South America and noticed that a lot of women there are even more obsessed with social media than they are in the US. I don’t like bars and partying so it would nice to run into someone naturally outside those venues. I’ve looked for things like hiking groups but here in Florida there isn’t much of that. Haven’t had luck with meetup groups in the past.

Anyone have any luck with this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Finding women who aren't "obsessed" with social media is possible, sure... Trying to find a gal who has ZERO presence on it is going to be more daunting than finding a lifelong Dubliner who HASN'T trashed his liver beyond all repair
 
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