"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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meeting women in raves?

tom121

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i was wondering if anyone have good tips to pick up women in raves?

most of the pretty girls hang out with their group of friends so it's really hard for me to approach and ask her to dance with me.

i also have noticed many women made eye contact with me or even dancing closer & closer to me (almost bumping into me)... but i haven't had the courage to ask, and it's pretty hard to have a decent conversation on the dance floor because of the loud music.

sometimes i would meet women through friends, although it's either (1) too young/old OR (2) not my type OR (3) has boyfriend

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Marlimus

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In an informal, dance-club rave environment, NEVER ASK. Simply grab them and start dancing. They'll either push you away or grind on you. When u get eye contact in this environment, you have 3 seconds to get your ass over there, and do not break eye contact or else it will seem asthough you are trying to work up the courage, which is lame.
 

El MonoLoco

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At a rave? Are you kidding? Its almost too easy....

most people at raves are on something...if not I wouldn't go....


Just go up to a girl...any girl....and ask...

****Want a massage?****

You don't pass up a massage when you're on E. I'd say it works 80% of the time..

When I used to rave, years ago, this got me laid more than anything, trust me

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