Meeting women at a place of worship such as a church

[davidsonj73]

I read online that some men meet women at church. I was wondering: Do most women at churches have sex outside of marriage? (Please read my whole post before you post anything or DM me.) I'm asking because I want to either hook up or have a LTR (I'd probably prefer the second but am open to either), but I am against marriage. I think it's wrong that a woman could divorce me for ANY reason and then take half of my assets. Also, if you know about how likely women are to meet men for hook ups and LTRs (but not marriage) at ANY religions place of worship please DM me. I don't want you to post on this board stuff like: women of religion X are/are not likely to meet men for hook ups or LTRs (but not marriage). I'm trying to figure out how this would work since many religions think sex outside of marriage is wrong. Please DM me if what you want to post on here might be offensive to others. I'm not easily offended. And if what you want to post on here wouldn't be offensive to anyone or against SS rules, then please post it! I mention churches in particular because they are statistically the most common places of worship in the USA and I want to be where I can meet many women. By the way, I can be really funny by telling dirty jokes. They tend to be all that is funny to me, but they're not appropriate for church! *Also, I was considering going back to college to take fine art, theatre, Spanish language courses, etc (these all sound fun!) to meet women. I'm 63 but prefer women younger than me, don't get me wrong though, I'll take what I can get! What do you think about the taking college courses idea?* If you know of any US states where prenuptial agreements tend to be enforced please mention them as well, since I would be open to marriage if I likely wouldn't lose half of my assets (or a lot of assets) in the event of a divorce. I plan on being faithful to her if I meet the right woman. I've heard the red states/conservative states tend to be most likely to enforce prenuptials, but do you know the best states of these for men in the event of a divorce? If so, please name them, since I would be open to moving.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It seems like a church might not be the ideal venue for you. You might have better luck in environments that encourage monogamy and no-strings-attached sexual relationships. Lucky for you, even red states have areas that cater to these individuals.

 

[davidsonj73]

It seems like a church might not be the ideal venue for you. You might have better luck in environments that encourage monogamy and no-strings-attached sexual relationships. Lucky for you, even red states have areas that cater to these individuals.

@CornbreadFed I see! Thanks for the reply! How much younger of a woman do you think an average looking 63 year old man can find that is interested in him for a LTR, or even hook ups?

 

[CornbreadFed]

@CornbreadFed I see! Thanks for the reply! How much younger of a woman do you think an average looking 63 year old man can find that is interested in him for a LTR, or even hook ups?

Depends how much money you got lol

 

[davidsonj73]

Depends how much money you got lol

@CornbreadFed That makes sense.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi davidson,
The last thing you should be seeking in a Church is a Lady,the Church I attend on a desultory basis has many very nice Ladies,mostly quite Old and having quite puritanical moral beliefs,not for you! Why not try Dance Classes and Social Dancing.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I read online that some men meet women at church

More than a few do so, hoss. Hell, ever since The Second Lateran Council, a large percentage of Roman Catholic priests have been getting almost ALL of their lays at church

Sadly, for those gals who are on the receiving end of all this, the copulation usually begins several years before they're remotely close to menarche, and not quite vaginally up to the task of accommodating 9 inches plus


PS: Aren't you Jewish, Dave? If so, take stock of our current cultural climate, BEFORE you set foot in a church anytime soon. There's a strong overlap between MAGATs and those who are regularly in the pews, and said demographic's love for folk who share ancestry with George Soros is less ardent than Farrakhan's affections for the children of Abraham

 

[davidsonj73]

Hi davidson,
The last thing you should be seeking in a Church is a Lady,the Church I attend on a desultory basis has many very nice Ladies,mostly quite Old and having quite puritanical moral beliefs,not for you! Why not try Dance Classes and Social Dancing.

@Scaramouche I've been thinking about learning Dancing, perhaps Salsa Dancing.

 

[davidsonj73]

More than a few do so, hoss. Hell, ever since The Second Lateran Council, a large percentage of Roman Catholic priests have been getting almost ALL of their lays at church

Sadly, for those gals who are on the receiving end of all this, the copulation usually begins several years before they're remotely close to menarche, and not quite vaginally up to the task of accommodating 9 inches plus


PS: Aren't you Jewish, Dave? If so, take stock of our current cultural climate, BEFORE you set foot in a church anytime soon. There's a strong overlap between MAGATs and those who are regularly in the pews, and said demographic's love for folk who share ancestry with George Soros is less ardent than Farrakhan's affections for the children of Abraham

@BaronOfHair I think it's sick that some of them take advantage of those gals, especially at that age, and when they took vows of celibacy! I would think, and I certainly hope that such behavior is very unusual/rare in the church.

Yes, I'm Jewish, but have had no luck meeting women in a Synagogue. I've gone to a local church before to try to meet women, and I'm certainly not a MAGAT. I'm a Reform Jew, and we tend to be liberal in terms of our religious beliefs and political views. At the church I visited, they had an Old Testament reading (basically the Tanakh in a different order) and a New Testament reading. I especially enjoy the Old Testament reading as I am very knowledgeable of the Tanakh, and even enjoy hearing the New Testament reading. For me though, the New Testament reading is like hearing a reading of Aesop's Fables. The church I visited didn't seem antagonistic towards Jews, though they would obviously want to convert us, but I thought it was interesting when they once said during the service: Salvation is from the Jews [referencing Jesus' Jewish roots].

 

[Solomon]

If you're going to church just to hook up, you're in it for the wrong reasons
Why go there and ruin your reputation if you're not planning to get married and find a wife?
I say this with no malice but at 63 you should know these things

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi davidson,
Selecting your Dancing style is very important...Salsa is a young persons Dance,hard on the knees...It's not so much the dance but the opportunities your Town offers to meet free Females at venues offering that Dance...You might be the best Salsa Dancer in Town,but if their are few regular venues,what's the point?...Maybe find the popular social Dancing venues first...I grew up on Rock'n'Roll,I love Country Music,but despite that I concentrate on Argentine Tango because it has many Milongas on the go,where Invariably there is always a shortage of Males,it being hard for Men to master.