ProteinShakee
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 4, 2019
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- 19
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- Age
- 29
Hello, first of all i'd like to say that this forum has been extremely helpful for me as i imagine it has been for several young men who never had any guidance from anyone regarding women and gender social dynamics.
My first encounter with this forum was after reading The Rational Male which made me check it out, and to my great benefit.
So, the thing i'd like to talk about and hear the input of others on, is meeting with an ex after a long time of being separated, i should specify that i am talking about specific cases where romantic emotions are completely absent from the guys side.
After reading RM i realized many things that i may or may not have unconsciously choosing to ignore for the sake of protecting my dream image of women, and thus that enabled me to maneuver in extremely versatile and intelligent, unencumbered ways, thus resulting in an immense success with women. This piece of context is important because it reflects on several beta behaviours i used to have when i dated the girl i will now talk about.
After about 10 months an ex reached out to me, we were together for about 1.5 years and i broke up with her on account of her toxic behavior, not knowing any better, i figured that i could meet with her and by using my newfound knowledge of game, have a night of amazing sex and just leave like i would with any other girl that i had no prior romantic association with.
The first part did happen, but after it happened she started displaying and i daresay to a massive extent all those toxic traits that made me dump her in the first place, greatly magnified and it was then that i realized that what i was doing and correctly so, according to my self evaluation of my game, did not have any effect on the present atmosphere. My application of game was completely brushed off and she behaved as she behaved to me long ago, then she went into a complete manic frenzy where she would even refuse to leave my car and started screaming because i politely asked her to do so, hurling personal insults at me.
So, after this not so pleasant experience, i would like to ask you fine gentlemen of this board, what is your opinions and beliefs on the subject of meeting with exes in such context? Is it a mistake that amateur players make because they overestimate themselves(me included), is it a leftover of the beta mindset that urges you to seek out the easy solution for sexual release?
I would really like to hear what you think regarding this subject.
My first encounter with this forum was after reading The Rational Male which made me check it out, and to my great benefit.
So, the thing i'd like to talk about and hear the input of others on, is meeting with an ex after a long time of being separated, i should specify that i am talking about specific cases where romantic emotions are completely absent from the guys side.
After reading RM i realized many things that i may or may not have unconsciously choosing to ignore for the sake of protecting my dream image of women, and thus that enabled me to maneuver in extremely versatile and intelligent, unencumbered ways, thus resulting in an immense success with women. This piece of context is important because it reflects on several beta behaviours i used to have when i dated the girl i will now talk about.
After about 10 months an ex reached out to me, we were together for about 1.5 years and i broke up with her on account of her toxic behavior, not knowing any better, i figured that i could meet with her and by using my newfound knowledge of game, have a night of amazing sex and just leave like i would with any other girl that i had no prior romantic association with.
The first part did happen, but after it happened she started displaying and i daresay to a massive extent all those toxic traits that made me dump her in the first place, greatly magnified and it was then that i realized that what i was doing and correctly so, according to my self evaluation of my game, did not have any effect on the present atmosphere. My application of game was completely brushed off and she behaved as she behaved to me long ago, then she went into a complete manic frenzy where she would even refuse to leave my car and started screaming because i politely asked her to do so, hurling personal insults at me.
So, after this not so pleasant experience, i would like to ask you fine gentlemen of this board, what is your opinions and beliefs on the subject of meeting with exes in such context? Is it a mistake that amateur players make because they overestimate themselves(me included), is it a leftover of the beta mindset that urges you to seek out the easy solution for sexual release?
I would really like to hear what you think regarding this subject.