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Meeting up with target and her friend? Good idea or disaster?

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Hey guys,
Theres this girl i've been chatting to online on facebook for a few weeks. She is keen.. really really keen. High interest levels, always initiating the inbox messages and we're playful and sexual all the time. She thinks im hot, funny, etc etc.
I talked to her on the phone the other day and her friend was there too, so i ended up talking to both of them. I felt i didn't really get to talk the target much cause her friend kept hogging the conversation but i got some time with her later! She later inboxes me saying me and her friend would be a good match cause we got along so cute.. i just played it off

Anyways, she is in town tomorrow but she is with this same friend. and she wants to hang out with me. I am really really skeptical about it..
I know if i can get her alone, i can definitely hook up with her. I was planning on going bowling with her, its always worked for me in the past. (100% success rate, try it out guys haha) But i won't be able to work my game with her friend in the picture.
DO you think i should flake on this by giving some excuse and just try to meet her when she's by herself? or should i just go for it?

ps. She's wanted to see me twice before when she was by herself but i wasn't available and i got a feeling she wasn't happy about it.

So yeah, help would be great fellas :)
 

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Targets listen to friends, and friends tend to judge you more than target. Your looks, your charms, etc. So you'd have to charm the friend first. It's not a **** block situation either. Be friend with her friend, plus she has to like your looks.

Knowing weakness of my game, I'd flake.

Someone else would go and become a good friend with the friend, and shine the eyes of target.
 
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Friend apparently cant stop telling target how cute i am.
SO i don't think it'd be a problem being in her good books.. but i'd rather meet up when i have the highest odds of scoring.
I cant really score well with her there :/

Unless i can? any suggestions?
 
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The_Crack said:
Friend apparently cant stop telling target how cute i am.
SO i don't think it'd be a problem being in her good books.. but i'd rather meet up when i have the highest odds of scoring.
I cant really score well with her there :/

Unless i can? any suggestions?
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I'd say skip it this time, try get target on date alone and make your move. If you fail with target then get target's friend alone on date and make your move on target's friend.
 
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