"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Meeting up with Old Girlfriend

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We dated a few years back. We recently got back in touch and she's coming to meet me I'm a few days.

What should I do? She was my oneitis and to be honest I still have feelings for her. I dropped love bomb too early and was very needy when I was dating her, which I think drove her away...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LeonSK said:
We dated a few years back. We recently got back in touch and she's coming to meet me I'm a few days.

What should I do? She was my oneitis and to be honest I still have feelings for her. I dropped love bomb too early and was very needy when I was dating her, which I think drove her away...
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Did she contact you first or did you contact her first?

I think a few years is enough time. You should still be cautious and not show any signs of feelings towards her. Just act indifferent. Find out what she wants first.

Maybe she wants to stay friends. Maybe she is looking for an ego boost. Maybe she just wants to see how you are doing. Or maybe she wants to get back together.

Even if she says she wants to get back together and give it another go, be very careful. The last thing you want is ending up back at square one with your heart broken again.
 
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I'd recommend you abandon mission. But, if you do choose to meet her, be a suave motherfücker. Make it short, say nothing in detail about what you're up to, and when she's getting into it, excuse yourself and jet. 45 mins should be your max time. See what happens in the next few days then.
 
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VladPatton said:
I'd recommend you abandon mission. But, if you do choose to meet her, be a suave motherfücker. Make it short, say nothing in detail about what you're up to, and when she's getting into it, excuse yourself and jet. 45 mins should be your max time. See what happens in the next few days then.
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What do you mean by "jet"? What does it mean?
 
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VenX said:
Did she contact you first or did you contact her first?

I think a few years is enough time. You should still be cautious and not show any signs of feelings towards her. Just act indifferent. Find out what she wants first.

Maybe she wants to stay friends. Maybe she is looking for an ego boost. Maybe she just wants to see how you are doing. Or maybe she wants to get back together.

Even if she says she wants to get back together and give it another go, be very careful. The last thing you want is ending up back at square one with your heart broken again.
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I did contact her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She came over today and we had a pleasant day together (sex and all that...). I couldn't tell her intentions but am absolutely sure that she still likes me. We will be geologically far apart soon and I don't think it makes sense for us to get together. DJs agree?
Overall I was quite calm and didn't show much neediness because I am not needy any more. I have options now. Right after she left, I set up a date with another chick.
 
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LeonSK said:
She came over today and we had a pleasant day together (sex and all that...). I couldn't tell her intentions but am absolutely sure that she still likes me. We will be geologically far apart soon and I don't think it makes sense for us to get together. DJs agree?
Overall I was quite calm and didn't show much neediness because I am not needy any more. I have options now. Right after she left, I set up a date with another chick.
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I don't think it could have gone any better
 
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