Meeting up with Old Girlfriend

[LeonSK]

We dated a few years back. We recently got back in touch and she's coming to meet me I'm a few days.

What should I do? She was my oneitis and to be honest I still have feelings for her. I dropped love bomb too early and was very needy when I was dating her, which I think drove her away...

 

[VenX]

We dated a few years back. We recently got back in touch and she's coming to meet me I'm a few days.

What should I do? She was my oneitis and to be honest I still have feelings for her. I dropped love bomb too early and was very needy when I was dating her, which I think drove her away...

Did she contact you first or did you contact her first?

I think a few years is enough time. You should still be cautious and not show any signs of feelings towards her. Just act indifferent. Find out what she wants first.

Maybe she wants to stay friends. Maybe she is looking for an ego boost. Maybe she just wants to see how you are doing. Or maybe she wants to get back together.

Even if she says she wants to get back together and give it another go, be very careful. The last thing you want is ending up back at square one with your heart broken again.

 

[VladPatton]

I'd recommend you abandon mission. But, if you do choose to meet her, be a suave motherfücker. Make it short, say nothing in detail about what you're up to, and when she's getting into it, excuse yourself and jet. 45 mins should be your max time. See what happens in the next few days then.

 

[LeonSK]

I'd recommend you abandon mission. But, if you do choose to meet her, be a suave motherfücker. Make it short, say nothing in detail about what you're up to, and when she's getting into it, excuse yourself and jet. 45 mins should be your max time. See what happens in the next few days then.

What do you mean by "jet"? What does it mean?

 

[LeonSK]

Did she contact you first or did you contact her first?

I think a few years is enough time. You should still be cautious and not show any signs of feelings towards her. Just act indifferent. Find out what she wants first.

Maybe she wants to stay friends. Maybe she is looking for an ego boost. Maybe she just wants to see how you are doing. Or maybe she wants to get back together.

Even if she says she wants to get back together and give it another go, be very careful. The last thing you want is ending up back at square one with your heart broken again.

I did contact her.

 

[LeonSK]

She came over today and we had a pleasant day together (sex and all that...). I couldn't tell her intentions but am absolutely sure that she still likes me. We will be geologically far apart soon and I don't think it makes sense for us to get together. DJs agree?
Overall I was quite calm and didn't show much neediness because I am not needy any more. I have options now. Right after she left, I set up a date with another chick.

 

[VenX]

She came over today and we had a pleasant day together (sex and all that...). I couldn't tell her intentions but am absolutely sure that she still likes me. We will be geologically far apart soon and I don't think it makes sense for us to get together. DJs agree?
Overall I was quite calm and didn't show much neediness because I am not needy any more. I have options now. Right after she left, I set up a date with another chick.

I don't think it could have gone any better