Meeting up with Ex

[Alpheta]

Some of you may have read my previous threads, if so youll know the situation. If not heres a quick summary:

-ive jerked my ex around a lot when we were in a relationship
-one day (2 weeks ago) I picked on her insecurity indirectly calling her a *****/slut (as she is religous)
-she decides that we shoudlnt talk for 5 months and only then we get married
-I panic like a beta and semi beg. She backs off even more until i realise im neck deep lol
- i tell her goodbye and to never contact again
- she blows up my phone next day. i dont pick up
-gets her sis to call me.
- she wants to get back together,i tell her im over her BUT well talk this over a coffee.She was quick to agree and wanted to meet me last week but i tell her this weekend.
-she tries to call me in between but i cut all phone calls short or ignore them telling her well talk 'next weekend'
-this week she stops trying.Been 3 days she hasnt messaged or called.Prob got the message.


Anyways, heres the deal. Shes told me the timing and that shes coming this weekend.Ive agreed. What im asking is if she doesnt text me by tomorrw night to confirm or anything, should I instead?I have acted very aloof and disintersted through out these 2 weeks. Practically ignored her.

So what do?I know you will bust my balls and say 'ex, so disregard' but just take this situation in isolation and just tell me wether i should confirm or just leave it to her.

 

[dustmuffin]

I would leave it up to her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If she wants to hook up, bang her if you can. Keep it on the DJ focus like they say, bang her, have fun with her let her decide when to raise the commitment level.

Make sure you are getting what you need and more at each level. You may have a chance for a clean reset and a better situation especially if she got a bad taste in her mouth messing with the world while she wasn't with you.

 

[Alpheta]

If she wants to hook up, bang her if you can. Keep it on the DJ focus like they say, bang her, have fun with her let her decide when to raise the commitment level.

Make sure you are getting what you need and more at each level. You may have a chance for a clean reset and a better situation especially if she got a bad taste in her mouth messing with the world while she wasn't with you.

yea but should I confirm tomorrow as i have shown little to no interest in her. As in ive continously told her 'well talk on sunday' but the last few days shes gone quiet. I have a feel maybe she thinks i dont care?

 

[dustmuffin]

yea but should I confirm tomorrow as i have shown little to no interest in her. As in ive continously told her 'well talk on sunday' but the last few days shes gone quiet. I have a feel maybe she thinks i dont care?

If you don't care that is when she will come. Its when you care that she will push you away. Just wait