Meeting through MySpace

[Mazeman11]

Have been talking to a girl on myspace for about two weeks. So far doesn't seem like the typical myspace skank. Decent pictures, not many people on the friends list and music selection is actually quite listenable.

Would you wait a while and keep chatting or would you ask to meet up?
Neither of us use aim or messenger.

Usually the chances are pretty low to meeting but me and this chick are slowly clicking.

 

[ViciousDADogg]

I don't even talk to them. I add women I like, then I look at bulletins. If they post crap I delete them for attention whoring.

I just message them and ask their phone number. "HEY. WHAT"S YOUR PHONE NUMBER?"


She gives it fine, not, whatever.


I doubt you gonna go boyond myspace with her. Chances here. A lot of attention *****s on myspace. Sometimes I think I'm the only real person on there. I'd ask her phone number. She gives it, she wants to meet. Not, she does not. No talky.

I prefer a dating site instead of myspace. Myspace is crap.

 

[knglerxt]

Sometimes I think I'm the only real person on there.

I think exactly the same thing.

 

[Social_disturbance]

Myspace sucks for that. Don't waste your time. I would actually recommend a good personals site--At least there you have girls looking for the same thing. And don't trash them-they're not that bad. Just try and get a number and schedule a date as fast as you can--Don't get caught up in that Instant Message bull****.

 

[speakeasy]

Get her number as soon as possible and don't rely on myspace as your way of connecting. If she won't give you her number, then she's probably just wasting your time. I'll tell you the truth, embarassed as I am to admit it. I wrote messages back and forth with a girl on myspace for nearly 2 years. Now within that time, I had tried to get her to meet up with me and all that but wasn't having much luck, but she seemed cool online. Same thing as your situation, was attractive, didn't seem to be attention whoring, seemed like a smart girl with some good values, great music tastes and all that so I was like, hell, I'll just keep chatting with her online then no biggie. So she does start eventually act interested, I meet up with her a few times and there's just zero face to face chemistry. After meeting her the 3rd time face to face, I knew it was going nowhere. We no longer talk. Moral of the story, as cool as a girl may seem online, you never know if there will be any chemistry until you actually meet her, so do that ASAP so you know you're not wasting your time as I did.

 

[Lust]

A lot of guys give up on MySpace, or really dislike it because so many women on it are not the type they'd go for, too immature, attention *****s. This used to be me, and I have only recently really started using myspace to meet women.

Let me remind you, MySpace is a fvcking GOLD MINE of women.

Yes the majority won't be your type, but I have seen plenty of interesting women online too.

MySpace is easy. I always send them a message, something about their profile, I keep it spontaneous, often times don't even say hi:

"Fvck yeah! Sweet I think I just found my soul mate, someone ELSE who enjoys dancing in their underwear too! Awesome!"

That's it. Something funny, usually that will get a friend request back. If not, I send another light hearted, personality conveying message and send them a friend request.

After that just casual comments, get her attracted by using your usual attraction tools eg. ****y/funny, small stories, observations, cold read them by using their profile etc...

If they have IM, get it. Usually all I do is leave them a funny comment, then at the bottom just leave a: "I'm sick of this MySpace sh!t, give me your IM".

Advice about ****y funny! Be careful with it! Online is different from real life, the point of ****y funny and being a bit of a jerk is to send mixed signals. To be a cvnt verbally to them, while you're validating them with body language, holding their hands, looking into their eyes, smiling etc...

But you can't do that online, you are missing a crucial piece of your arsenal, so be careful not too overdo the whole "jerk" thing.

After getting IM, I build some rapport with them. Usually I'll talk about how most men are fvcking clueless when it comes to women and I'll be embedding that I'm different, something special. I'll talk to them about the pressures from society and being a woman, and I'll embed that I understand them and am discreet.

After you have a connection, snap back into fun mode. Set up a quick date, usually I'll say: "It's weird, meeting someone on MySpace, but I'd like to think that all the hours I spent on MySpace had some good come out of it!" (Be careful with this as it may convey that you are a MySpace addict, it works best when you actually AREN'T online a lot)

As you set up the date via IM, grab her number.

I did this not 2 days ago and it worked perfectly. MySpace is easy, don't give up on it.

 

[speakeasy]

I tried looking through profiles for "normal" women who were also attractive. It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack. When I did fine one of the rare few who really seemed cool, they don't write back. I figured I was wasting too much time and just gave up.

 

[ViciousDADogg]

Yea, speakeasy. I know exactly what you mean.

You can usually see by the picture if the girl is an attention wh0re, or "normal". 95% of them are attention wh0res. Sideway camera angles, unnatural positions, her showing her a55 instead of face, you name it. Those women are attention wh0res.

If she's young she might respond violentely if you ask her number. If she's your age, she's gonna attention wh0re. Waste of time.

Normal women? If there was such a thing. Unfortunately the only normal women that there are in my reality, are those that I'd date. I can't say I'd date 50 or so from my friend list.

They look cute. But, that's all, really.

Attention wh0ring is inborn in every one of them.


A dating site is different. B1tches come there to meet guys. But again, some come to get that extra attention.


Man. Once you find out the truth about women. You start to hate those little rats.


Bobby whatever, David DeAngelo's wing, says that nothing's possible on myspace. I kinda believe him. Maybe it's possible once in a while, but way too much work.



Damn, hi heels. I too like to look sexy in the elevator. You and I have something in common.

 

[Mazeman11]

What surprises me about myspace women is that some of them are willing to carry on conversations messaging back and forth for weeks but when you ask for their IM or number, they disappear! Just like magic.

 

[speakeasy]

What surprises me about myspace women is that some of them are willing to carry on conversations messaging back and forth for weeks but when you ask for their IM or number, they disappear! Just like magic.

Nothing surprising about that. That's just classic attention wh*re behavior. Like someone else said in this forum, things like myspace are the equivalent of video games for women. They get fun, amusement and attention from them. These guys messaging them are not real people, they're nothing more than screen characters smothering them with validation. They have no real interest in meeting any of these jackasses posting "thanks for the add" on their page. I've even seen women boast about all the guys messaging them and taking delight in ignoring them.

The hell with myspace.

 

[ducaro]

myspace is so shiity. Its should be called myface or yourface cuz thats all there is to it

what I can't believe is some 32 year old GUYS hang around there.. hoping to get laid! may be some do... but come on.. are those guys on myspace real men or AFC's

 

[Effington]

Ha, the above poster is correct.

I have received hundreds of friend requests from profiles with a picture gorgeous women. I write back, "Who are you?", and guess how many respond? I don't think one has yet.

It's ridiculous how many people care so much about the number on their friends list and the amount of comments on their page.

 

[ViciousDADogg]

They have no real interest in meeting any of these jackasses posting "thanks for the add" on their page.

My approach to that is simple. I don't message them nor post comments, don't even look at their fake a55 profile.


I add. If she's interested she'll add.


I let them sit on that list, if I notice sh1t posted in bulletin board, that's attention wh0ring. Delete.


Then I pick and choose and ask a hoe for her number. If she gives it fine. If not, whatever.


Most of the time it's not. So I just leave them alone. Wait. But not really, other things to do. I kind of forget them and they just keep sitting on that list. I'll go over her again next time. Eventually that retard will get interested. Here is this guy texting me "HEY WHAT"S YOUR PHONE NUMBER"... AND HE DOESN"T CARE IF I DON"T RESPOND???? WOW.


But guess what. I have a good memory. If she does respond eventually I test her. She just might end up being ignored. Nothing's beyond one night fvck is possible for those women.


I also found that black chicks are more likely to be real than any other chicks.

 

[J-Bone]

It's all how you manage it. I've met alot from myspace that I've dated. Just be funny and a little ****y and a picture is a MUST. then you gotta go in for that number. There is a bit of a diff. between an attention ***** and a myspace attention *****. usually the ones on myspace can be broken unless they're the ones who join groups only to get a high number of friends and they always post buletins about them.

 

[Mazeman11]

Looks like what most of you have said is true. MySpace is truely a waste of time!

Sucks being new to an area. It's hard to meet people.

 

[Mayfly]

MySpace works, you just need to know how to work it like other people are saying on here. I have met three girls off of there and hooked up with each within two times seeing them. One that night. It can be done, just work your angles.

 

[Mazeman11]

Maybe it depends on the area as well. The techniques mentioned did really nothing.

 

[themaster07]

Ive met up with 2 chicks of myspace both 17-20 ages,and both i can potentially ****,one is hot but puts out like ya wouldnt believe,and the 2nd is a relationship chick i could "woo" quite easily if i lived near her,they take a little while to get to say yes to meet up,(scared of all the weirdos on the net) but when ya do,ya can meet some really nice girls.. serious

 

[ToughLove]

myspace is a lazy player's way to meet girls - its very easy to be successful, but its also somewhat unfulfilling if you do too much of it