"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Meeting the love of my life

The4Elements

New Member
Joined
Jul 24, 2006
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Just before i begin my story: I'm not a don juan nor a player. I'm shy at times, i'm ok when it comes to girls though, thats really no problem.

I know this girl for a pretty long time now, like 4/5 years. Now that i think of it, i always was in love with her, i just found out too late, i was too young to understand the feeling, but i know for sure now that i'm badly in love.
When i was younger we used to hang out alot. Now i haven't seen her for so damn long(She moved to another place) but she would still be on my mind. Then one day i saw her walking somewhere, and i just went nuts, the feeling of love i felt was incredible. I was too shy to just walk up to her, so i searched her info on the internet(profiles etc) And boom after 2 hours i found a profile of her, i sendt her a message and asked if she still remembered me, and she did, she asked for my msn. I told her my feelings for her(I know thats the worst thing you can do, especially over internet-.-) But i just couldn't wait. We talked on msn for a few months.. No deep convos.. Just regular stuff.. We already tried to meet eachother a couple of times but it failed.. But now.. in 2 days shes going on vacation, and i really wanna see her before she goes.. So the plan is im going to see her tommorow.
Problem is, i'm so nervous now, because i waited too long, and i haven't spoke to her in real for such a long time, i have no idea what to talk about, or even where to meet.. Cause in my eyes it isn't a real date..Were just gonna chill for a bit.. shes so freaking beautiful it intimidates me!

Can anyone give me some good tips? Cause most tips on sosuave.net are impossible to do for me.. Most are about talking to a girl you've never met before, this is a different situation..

This is really important for me..

Thanks in advance

Note: Sorry if my english is bad, but i'm not american/english
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Toushi

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 11, 2006
Messages
105
Reaction score
0
C'mon, haven't you learned nothing?

You don't tell her how you feel.
She's not the love of your life.
Go for it.

If it goes well, fine. If not, learn from it and move on.

Geez, read the DJ Bible.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
1,460
Reaction score
22
i agree with the post above...

but *YOU* want advice... so here...

you meet her... be like "i'm not normally like this... but i'm kind of nervous right now, ya know... i havent seen you in a while"

(^that's the icebreaker so she knows you are stupidly-nervous... and now you know she knows... so get the f.ck over it)

she'll be like "blah blah, oh really?" ... w/e

then be like "yeah it's great though that i can finally get to know you again."

then the rest is getting to know her and talking.

then RIGHT AFTER you read this go to the 'bible' located at the bottom of this forum... learn how to talk, touch, flirt, all the essentials.
 

Distant Light

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 9, 2005
Messages
669
Reaction score
8
Location
New York
Your done...Supplication your frame is weak, your chances are slim to none. You seem to be way more interested in this more than her. All you could have done was do some solid game and you would have been better off but you basically asked for a handicap. Good luck though, my only advice is don't look nevrous and lead the whole interaction because you already fuvked urself over. Good luck.
 
Top