Meeting someone for a first date?

[GeetryS]

Im pretty confused here.

Im going to meet up with some HB8 I met off facebook like 2 weeks ago. Ive never done this before so hopefully someone who has can give me some advice.

I think ive narrowed it down to either miniature golf or some chill coffee shop by the beach. Im leaning towards golf because it will give us something to do, but i'm 21 years old and it might be kind of childish. The coffee shop is pretty cool too but I dont want the awkwardness of sitting there because we dont know each other THAT well...I guess we can always walk down by the beach or some other ****.

What would you do? Any better suggestions? And for someone that has met someone online in real life...any tips or advice?

 

[The_411]

Adventure dates = good. So an amusement park is excellent also is the car driving places. Minature golf is decent to good first date.

Coffee isn't a bad per se but sicen you're locked into that spot (unless you get coffee to go you're not moving around)

 

[GuanYu]

coffee chit chat is great for first dates. Just don't go the typical route and make it seem like an interrogation or interview. Be funny and more importantly be witty and say things to arouse her. Ask simple questions and try to think of stories or elaborate on her responses.

Action dates are better for second, third, etc dates because it gives you a chance to kino when she has some sort of comfort with you. Of course if you've already kino'd and have a good rapport then an action date is good anytime.

 

[GeetryS]

Guan, you bring up a good point about the kino and action dates for 2nd, 3rd, etc...

Any other thoughts/opinions?

 

[GuanYu]

if possible try to find something to do that you're decent at and she isn't great at. You've probably seen in movies where the guy gets behind the woman and helps her guide the golf club or maneuver the pool stick this stuff actually works great. It also gives you a good chance to test her comfort level. Slide your hands down her waist or shoulders while being close. Breath lightly in her ear when you're close. If she's wearing perfume, make sure to gently sniff her neck.

If she happens to be good at the activity that's ok too! For example say you play pool, if she makes a tough shot go for a high five and then bring her in close and kiss her neck or hand whatever you're comfortable with. You could also wrap your arms around her from the back depending on her comfort level. Not sure how much experience you have, but for me I find it best to just try and go all out to find out where she stands. This also lets her truly know your intentions (even though most women already know ahead of time) and she won't likely think the two of you are just friends.