"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Meeting set with soon-to-be-plate, should I txt her?

sosousage

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I recently met a girl online that is saying upfront shes just looking for sex.

Shes hot af. We have meeting set for weekend (or its more an "maybe meeting").

Couple days ago when we agreed for a meeting I deleted her from tinder and added her on snapchat, i didnt text her since that.


Should I txt her to get her warmed up so she doesnt cancel? or just ignore her till weekend
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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QuadDeuces

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A roommate of a friend is on OLD and only "just looking for sex".
She is complaining that this girl is boning 5 new dudes every week in their shared appartment to get over an ex.
Some chumps even sent her flowers and another takes her to expensive dinners, don't be that guy.

But ontopic, if they don't reply, they're too busy boning guys who do reply.
 
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