"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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meeting people at work

phobius

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hey guys, first time poster here.

I work in a big office building and there are a lot of attractive females walking around. Was wondering if any of you experts had any ideas on good strategy to use when coming upon one of these fine folks all sudden-like in the hallway or parking lot. (there are a couple I've noticed for a while, but since i haven't spoken to them yet, my concern is that they see me as all stalker-like, you know? sheesh.)

Thanks for any thoughts. PS, I don't work with any of these people... want to avoid that mess :) :eek:

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LA_Chico

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Yeah bro, because like they say "Don't dip your d ick in Cumpany ink"
 

banGbro

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Just like any dudes you meet in there, except friendlier. Make friends.... Make them wet, but dont move in. If they move in its ok, but only after hours and off premises.



You probably have a policy out that prohibits dating employees. See what it says about off hours and off premises. It sux to loose a job.
 
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