"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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meeting people at work

phobius

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hey guys, first time poster here.

I work in a big office building and there are a lot of attractive females walking around. Was wondering if any of you experts had any ideas on good strategy to use when coming upon one of these fine folks all sudden-like in the hallway or parking lot. (there are a couple I've noticed for a while, but since i haven't spoken to them yet, my concern is that they see me as all stalker-like, you know? sheesh.)

Thanks for any thoughts. PS, I don't work with any of these people... want to avoid that mess :) :eek:

p.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LA_Chico

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Yeah bro, because like they say "Don't dip your d ick in Cumpany ink"
 

banGbro

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Just like any dudes you meet in there, except friendlier. Make friends.... Make them wet, but dont move in. If they move in its ok, but only after hours and off premises.



You probably have a policy out that prohibits dating employees. See what it says about off hours and off premises. It sux to loose a job.
 
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