Meeting OLD oneitis that lost interest in person

[dk1990S111]

Just found out that I'll be having a meeting with a girl that I'm 99% sure was my OLD oneitis 3-4 years ago based on her name, not very common and it's showing first and last. Checked her IG to see if there's a bf in the picture and doesn't look like there is.

When I talked to her on OLD years ago we exchanged numbers but texting too much got me, she said something and I responded real quick and later realized I misinterpreted it so my answer sounded retarded. Never ended up meeting her in person and I have been hitting the gym, worked on myself and think it's worth a shot asking her out in person this time.

Any tips on reattracting her? I think being face to face will probably be a big plus compared to just another guy online.

 

[AlphaNate]

Yes: forget everything you just wrote and treat her like any other girl.

 

[dk1990S111]

Yes: forget everything you just wrote and treat her like any other girl.

Ya pretty much figured that. I wouldn't be surprised if she remembers me though, so if she brings up the past I guess just pretend I don't remember? Lol

 

[AlphaNate]

Ya pretty much figured that. I wouldn't be surprised if she remembers me though, so if she brings up the past I guess just pretend I don't remember? Lol

HB: "You really don't remember me?"

dk: Should I?

 

[Billtx49]

Last time was only online digital but you still developed oneitis? Be ready for real life this time before the meet up.

 

[dk1990S111]

Last time was only online digital but you still developed oneitis? Be ready for real life this time before the meet up.

Yuuup haha I mean based on her profile shes literally everything I was and still would like to find in a girl. Mentally I am pretty sure Ill be fine this time around but not 100%

 

[wifehunter]

Buy her a teddy bear, they love those!

 

[Billtx49]

Mentally I am pretty sure Ill be fine this time around but not 100%

Get to 100% emotional control and you're ready.

 

[dk1990S111]

Buy her a teddy bear, they love those!

lol I was thinking of that and chocolate and flowers. No way she'd be able to resist that

 

[wifehunter]

lol I was thinking of that and chocolate and flowers. No way she'd be able to resist that

You lady killer, you!

 

[resilient]

Don't forget her favorite ice cream flavor. Make sure she's not a greedy bird, tho...

 

[Glassguy]

lol I was thinking of that and chocolate and flowers. No way she'd be able to resist that

Have an engagement ring in your pocket too......just in case the date goes well you can propose! That way, if the Teddy bear, flowers and chocolate don't finish you off with this chick, the ring certainly will! Hahaha.

 

[resilient]

Ok one more gift idea: Fidget spinner. This dude has some cool moves to impress the ladies:

 

[dk1990S111]

Ok one more gift idea: Fidget spinner. This dude has some cool moves to impress the ladies:

Glad Ive been practicing non stop for the last month or so haha

But really you guys have any idea how to go about this? @Glassguy usually see some good advice from you

 

[Glassguy]

Glad Ive been practicing non stop for the last month or so haha

But really you guys have any idea how to go about this? @Glassguy usually see some good advice from you

Be yourself. Make HER qualify herself to you and not the other way around. Be a confident version of yourself. Don't talk too much, enough to keep the convo going.

Most chicks ask if you date a lot. Tell them yes, you keep your options open until you find the right fit. Abundance mentality will get you far, just don't be too over the top about it.