"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Meeting Internet Girl

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Girl who i've been in email contact with for several months is coming to my city.

She has previously expressed a romantic interest in me, as we have talked on webcam, video chat, phone, IM, etc and got on very well.

Basically, I think the reason for her coming is mainly to see me.

To clarify, I don't see a future in it, simply because she is moving away soon (hence the urgency in seeing me), but I still think we could have a really good day and maybe even hook up, which would suit me fine.

So any suggestions on the kind of activities we could do together?

In Short, what should my game be for such a unique situation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i think the best way to handle this is to build up to a fantastic sexcapade.. Keep her relaxed, be non threatening, and gradually make her aware for the pornstar you are... I'd start out with some minigolf, then dinner...make sure to have some wine..then hit up a lounge type bar, ie. soft music, dimly lit.. get your kino going strong..then make your move, indicate your sexual desire subtlly, catch a cab back to your place(have it set up with some candles, condoms, wine, etc) and give that lucky woman some kawk.. 2 or 3 times that night
 
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blackbelt2k said:
i think the best way to handle this is to build up to a fantastic sexcapade.. Keep her relaxed, be non threatening, and gradually make her aware for the pornstar you are... I'd start out with some minigolf, then dinner...make sure to have some wine..then hit up a lounge type bar, ie. soft music, dimly lit.. get your kino going strong..then make your move, indicate your sexual desire subtlly, catch a cab back to your place(have it set up with some candles, condoms, wine, etc) and give that lucky woman some kawk.. 2 or 3 times that night

VERY NICE

the only part id change is to go have wine at your place right away while watching a movie.....skip the lounge and all that cuz you want to have isolation sooner than 2am at night lol
 

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good idea pimpaholicskip.. but i dunno, it depends on the chic, but w/e...SHE is coming to visit you thursday, its basiclly in the bag...don't forget the hygine, don't want her to get lost in the pubic jungle trying to find your great oak.
 

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thursday said:
...To clarify, I don't see a future in it, simply because she is moving away soon (hence the urgency in seeing me), but I still think we could have a really good day and maybe even hook up, which would suit me fine.
Good thing that you recognize this, many guys choose to overlook it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thursday said:
To clarify, I don't see a future in it, simply because she is moving away soon (hence the urgency in seeing me), but I still think we could have a really good day and maybe even hook up, which would suit me fine.
if there is not future, bang that ho0r good. Do things that would be illegal in most states, lol... get your pornstar moment...****, i'd even videotape the sexcapade
 

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haha, some good advice there.

I'd classify her as a "nice girl", so I doubt it would be as easy as you say.

Still, the idea is great: take her out somewhere and then back to mine (incidently, she doesn't have accomodation for her first night, so i offered to put her up... and she accepted ;).

Meal > Nice Lounge/Bar > Mine. Great stuff!
 

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She accepted the offer for you to "put her up?" :crackup: Seriously though, her acceptance of your offer means she trusts you, which bodes well for you. She's expressed romantic interest (i.e. doesn't think of you as a dreaded friend,) and wants to stay with you :cheer: for thursday.
 
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