Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Meeting Internet Girl

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Girl who i've been in email contact with for several months is coming to my city.

She has previously expressed a romantic interest in me, as we have talked on webcam, video chat, phone, IM, etc and got on very well.

Basically, I think the reason for her coming is mainly to see me.

To clarify, I don't see a future in it, simply because she is moving away soon (hence the urgency in seeing me), but I still think we could have a really good day and maybe even hook up, which would suit me fine.

So any suggestions on the kind of activities we could do together?

In Short, what should my game be for such a unique situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i think the best way to handle this is to build up to a fantastic sexcapade.. Keep her relaxed, be non threatening, and gradually make her aware for the pornstar you are... I'd start out with some minigolf, then dinner...make sure to have some wine..then hit up a lounge type bar, ie. soft music, dimly lit.. get your kino going strong..then make your move, indicate your sexual desire subtlly, catch a cab back to your place(have it set up with some candles, condoms, wine, etc) and give that lucky woman some kawk.. 2 or 3 times that night
 
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blackbelt2k said:
i think the best way to handle this is to build up to a fantastic sexcapade.. Keep her relaxed, be non threatening, and gradually make her aware for the pornstar you are... I'd start out with some minigolf, then dinner...make sure to have some wine..then hit up a lounge type bar, ie. soft music, dimly lit.. get your kino going strong..then make your move, indicate your sexual desire subtlly, catch a cab back to your place(have it set up with some candles, condoms, wine, etc) and give that lucky woman some kawk.. 2 or 3 times that night

VERY NICE

the only part id change is to go have wine at your place right away while watching a movie.....skip the lounge and all that cuz you want to have isolation sooner than 2am at night lol
 

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good idea pimpaholicskip.. but i dunno, it depends on the chic, but w/e...SHE is coming to visit you thursday, its basiclly in the bag...don't forget the hygine, don't want her to get lost in the pubic jungle trying to find your great oak.
 

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thursday said:
...To clarify, I don't see a future in it, simply because she is moving away soon (hence the urgency in seeing me), but I still think we could have a really good day and maybe even hook up, which would suit me fine.
Good thing that you recognize this, many guys choose to overlook it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thursday said:
To clarify, I don't see a future in it, simply because she is moving away soon (hence the urgency in seeing me), but I still think we could have a really good day and maybe even hook up, which would suit me fine.
if there is not future, bang that ho0r good. Do things that would be illegal in most states, lol... get your pornstar moment...****, i'd even videotape the sexcapade
 

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haha, some good advice there.

I'd classify her as a "nice girl", so I doubt it would be as easy as you say.

Still, the idea is great: take her out somewhere and then back to mine (incidently, she doesn't have accomodation for her first night, so i offered to put her up... and she accepted ;).

Meal > Nice Lounge/Bar > Mine. Great stuff!
 

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She accepted the offer for you to "put her up?" :crackup: Seriously though, her acceptance of your offer means she trusts you, which bodes well for you. She's expressed romantic interest (i.e. doesn't think of you as a dreaded friend,) and wants to stay with you :cheer: for thursday.
 
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