"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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griffon65

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Well in one month I'm going to the police academy. Which is 45 hours a week, plus drive through rush hour traffic, studying after the academy and working out. This leaves little time to go out.

So I thought I'd try online dating and see what happens. Whats sites would you guys recommend that you've had good experiances with?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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welcome to the reall world, once you start working and start putting in overtime it'll be even worse. I wouldn't suggest dating sites, not worth the money or the trouble.
 
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and from experience, the girls are no good!!!

and they stalk you. and you may have to kill them to get rid.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by griffon65
Well in one month I'm going to the police academy. Which is 45 hours a week, plus drive through rush hour traffic, studying after the academy and working out. This leaves little time to go out.

So I thought I'd try online dating and see what happens. Whats sites would you guys recommend that you've had good experiances with?
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Suggestion; if you want to learn how to do something, go to people who know how to do it (preferably those who do it well).
In other words, posts like this will get the most response from guys who either never done it or don't do it well. Search the forum, there are tons of threads out there already. Read as much as you can and try out the suggestions that fit your style.
 
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