"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sunnykhatri736

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I dont have much girls in my college or work. So i prefer meeting girls on instagram because i get girls whom i dont even come across in my daily life
i wanted to ask what should be my first text to a girl .
i always send this text to everygirl and it works 99% of the time
"Hey xxxxxx :) i know you might be thinking that i dont even know this guy then why the hell is he texting me ? i just wanted you to know that you are the most beautiful girl i have ever seen . Whenever i see your pictures thats the best part of my day because just looking at them makes me smile we havent talked yet but just by going through your profile it gives me positive energy vibes that u are a sweet kinda girl oh god u are so adorable you are million times more beautiful then any disney princess or any supermodel I cant help myself from adoring you your eyes are so attractive and i cant pay attention to anything else hehei just wanted u to know these things about u thats why i texted. I hope it made u smile ☺☺
I would love to know more about u and your life . I want to know the real u. The real girl behind this account.
So friends ?
Haha bcz i have a secret crush on this beautiful girl named xxxx hehe "
so i wanted to ask should i do some changes in this or it perfect ??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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