meeting girls at lounges

[Hunterchilla]

Ok im a big newbie and I dont really have that much trouble picking up women

I mean my game isnt great but im really good looking so it makes up for it. also i usually get hooked up through friends.

Anyway I dont go out, I dont like clubs, and I hate bars, so the last time I went out was when I was in southbeach with my friends and when we go out we go to these really nice Lounges/clubs

I admit I have fun when im with them but when im in NYC i dont realy go out. So I dont have much experience with lounges. Not that im a complete newb I know what to do etc and its not hard for me since im going down to LA and MIA for a month

im gonna be going to alot of LOUNGES,and Parties

so anyway I remember when I was doing this and on the rare occasion when i was hooked up.

Anyway I always ran into the same problem, Id get numbers always while my friends met girls and brought them back to the house to have sex. Id come home with a number!

Anyway I have major problems sealing the deal.

I think my main problem is that i indicate it to obviously that I just wanna bring em back and rail them or something.

So my friend always uses this line AND it almost always works for him,

he says so wanna come back for the after party?

or he says wanna come back and have some wine at my house?

and it always works

I tried this and the girls are always like no not tonight call me tomorrow etc,etc

and EVERYTHING goes perfect also, it can be a night of making out on a couch, and still they wont go home with me!

Anyone know what this could be? i dont know what im doin wrong

anyone can give me some tips?

 

[Bourne]

Stop poluting TIPS forum.

This is where you post tips not ask for them.

 

[sapphire]

I live here in Miami and am privy to the club/lounge scene here.

It seems to me that you may be coming off as too desperate while your friend is good at establishing good rapport with the girls before taking them home.

Other than that it is hard to see what you are doing wrong/right. If you are good looking like you say then you already are ahead of the game since the women here, especially the ones you see at the clubs, are superficial.

The way I work it at a club is that I try to connect with the girl with good rapport so that she feels comfortable with me and after I sense that there is chemistry, I will invite her to another more intimate venue either at my place or a small bar/lounge. After a couple of more drinks they usually are in a high state of horniness that not much effort is needed to get them into bed.

So, if were you I'll try working more to estgablish rapport so that the girl feels comfortable in going home with you.

 

[Hunterchilla]

thanks yeah that seems about right, by the way what clubs are u hitting up, just curious

i usually go to Rock bar, Privvay, The Raleigh Hotel, Mint, and Mansion. how about you>

 

[sapphire]

crobar, space, bed, skybar, etc. to name a few. There is also a new club called metropolis in downtown Miami that always has its plate full of hot chicas. You should also give that a try.

 

[Hunterchilla]

oh i forgot to mention SKYBAR i love that place, its so beautiful by the pool area,

what r u doin in CROBAR though that places is ghetto'ed out.

 

[sapphire]

Yea, you are right. Places like space and crobar used to be really good before the whole hip hop scene took over the clubs several years ago. Along with the hip hop came the ghetto thugs you see nowadays on South Beach. For that reason I don't go to these places anymore unless I happen to get VIP passes. I know a DJ who used to work at crobar and still has enough juice to get vip passes. But, I very rarely step foot in those places anymore.

The best places are the lounges like Bed, and the ones you mentioned like Mynt, Prive and the like.