"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Meeting Chicks Online ...still possible?

Starwolf

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@Vulpine Spoken Like a true DJ


But, I wish the manosphere could unite on some matters to affect change. By saying, "No" to texty games, Facebook, and online dating, we say "You'll have to be agreeable in real life, no more games, or you don't get any." And we can "say" it with our actions. Sure, AFC's will persist, but we'll have a clear answer to that question "Where are all the good men?" They won't be virtually sitting in a window waiting to be bought, they'll be out shopping in real life.
This !! This right here !!:rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vulpine said:
It is my opinion that the ability to approach women is

THE

difference between a DJ and a regular ol' average and frustrated.
I'm inclined to agree with this. Approaching women in REAL LIFE is truly terrifying for the novice, the danger, the anxiety, is usually through the roof. But, as I think Vulpine is trying to say, the fear is what makes us better.

I have no beef with online dating. I have yet to try it but I intend on it. It seems like a safe way to game women while protecting your ego in some way, the non-responses don't hurt nearly as much as a face to face rejection you might suffer IRL.

In most cases when you meet a chick online and she agrees to go out with you it's usually after some back and forth correspondence for a few days or even weeks. It makes the intial interaction easier when you eventually meet because SOME rapport has already been establised. But there is something to say about having balls, approaching strange women in new places makes me feel alive.

One positive thing I take away from the explosion in online dating is that men who can game and approach in person are becoming more rare. Not many men can do it now, just do some people watching at a packed bar and watch for yourself. THese guys are content on staying behind the keyboard and spamming dozens of chicks a day, throwing out the hook and looking for a few bites. When you approach a woman and lay some serious well honed game on her they're usually quite shocked. THAT'S how you stand out. :cool:
 

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Guys, this is insane!!!!

checkout the amount of friend requests this fake FB account got in just 1 day.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/26kznruxuzbqez8/fb.png?dl=0


Online game is all fvcked up ...which sane girl would go trough 193 notifications to find your unique message?? :crackup:

I had to see it for myself to believe it.. the amount of attention a HB gets is preposterous. No wonder their ego's get inflated, no wonder the narcissistic nature,...

And I can't help but feel sad that this is caused by all the attention we men give to these women.

Stop Feeding the pvssy :nono:
 

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I agree. But one problem I run into at the mall is sometimes I approach teenagers thinking they are older (early 20's). Some teens look very old.

I agree with retail stores though. Areas near college campuses are great too. Very target rich. Tinder is better than POF and Okcupid by far (at least for me). I haven't taken much advantage of Facebook yet. I might give it a try.

Day game is still something most men are not willing to do. So it will probably be the most effective approach for a while.
16 is legal age of consent in most places including DC. If they end up being 15 just ask when they turn 16 haha
 
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