Meeting chicks of other races

[LDD]

Ok, so during the past few weeks, I got to hang out (as friends) with chicks of other races, and let's just say that after those experiences, I'm not going back to my own race. ie: once you taste heaven, everything on earth sucks no matter how good.

So, my question is: for guys who have a strong preference for chicks of other races, do you kind of integrate yourself into their racial community?

I'm thinking of taking a language class specific to the race of chicks I want to meet. My idea is that when you walk up to those chicks and you speak in their language even though you're of different race, you surely will leave a strong impression on them?

ie: you're white and you speak chinese to a chinese chick you wanna hit, or you're an indian and you speak italian to an italian chick etc...

I'm considering this partly also because I enjoy listening to songs of that language, so it seems like a win either way.

Also, would learning some basic dance moves be a good addition to your game?
I'm always quite uptight by nature and wondering if learning to dance would loosen me up a bit.

Tks!
LDD

 

[RagingBalls]

Ok, so during the past few weeks, I got to hang out (as friends) with chicks of other races, and let's just say that after those experiences, I'm not going back to my own race. ie: once you taste heaven, everything on earth sucks no matter how good.

So, my question is: for guys who have a strong preference for chicks of other races, do you kind of integrate yourself into their racial community?

I'm thinking of taking a language class specific to the race of chicks I want to meet. My idea is that when you walk up to those chicks and you speak in their language even though you're of different race, you surely will leave a strong impression on them?

ie: you're white and you speak chinese to a chinese chick you wanna hit, or you're an indian and you speak italian to an italian chick etc...

I'm considering this partly also because I enjoy listening to songs of that language, so it seems like a win either way.

Also, would learning some basic dance moves be a good addition to your game?
I'm always quite uptight by nature and wondering if learning to dance would loosen me up a bit.

Tks!
LDD

It depends. If you like their culture or not, if it adheres to what your beliefs and what you stand for. The most important thing here is, to respect your differences in terms of culture, values, tradition etc.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

I think you have to expand a bit. Are these girls that are from a different country or from the same country as you or a different race?

Im white, I go for a lot of Asian girls. The city I live in is very multicultural and for the most part race isn't really an issue when you approach girls from a different race. If I do approach girls who are from out of the country ( in a club scene) I find that being alpha really helps you out, especially with Asian girls from Asia visiting here on vacation. Considering they do not know much English you have to use as much body language and kino as possible. I haven't gotten a bad response to that yet.

Knowing some of the language will help but for me it helps more in a humorous way. Learn how to say something funny in their language if you can have a decent conversation with them in English. Foreign girls will generally be more into the local guys and more down for whatever.

 

[GotED?]

I have never dated women of my own race - I have always dated outside of my own 'people' (lack of a better term...). I just never found them attractive and that is all right.

If you decide to date cross-culturally, ALWAYS keep in mind that there is going to be a percentage of women you attempt to date outside of your own race who WILL NEVER BE OPEN MINDED TO YOUR RACE.

You will need to accept this, the sooner you do, the less you will take it personally. They have the right to not want to date you, just as I don't like dating my own race. Just learn to skip the time-wasters and work on the other possibilities.

I have had high success - but it also depends on how attractive you are physically. It takes quite a bit of game, charisma, and good looks to make a woman ponder about a man outside of her own race.

If you don't have much of that, you will experience more rejection than you can handle.

Good luck.

Exodus

 

[Nickface]

I think you have to expand a bit. Are these girls that are from a different country or from the same country as you or a different race?

Im white, I go for a lot of Asian girls. The city I live in is very multicultural and for the most part race isn't really an issue when you approach girls from a different race. If I do approach girls who are from out of the country ( in a club scene) I find that being alpha really helps you out, especially with Asian girls from Asia visiting here on vacation. Considering they do not know much English you have to use as much body language and kino as possible. I haven't gotten a bad response to that yet.

Knowing some of the language will help but for me it helps more in a humorous way. Learn how to say something funny in their language if you can have a decent conversation with them in English. Foreign girls will generally be more into the local guys and more down for whatever.

This is pretty spot on. I too dig the asian chicks being a white dude. It really does depend if your talking about an Americanized "asian"(insert the nationality you like) or a fob chick. A fob chick is much more likely to cling onto you and fall for your game. Once you take an interest in there culture, your in. Learn the language and act as interested in the culture as possible even if it's boring as hell. For example, I dated a Chinese girl because I learned how to say hello, goodbye, and cute in Chinese. My ex girlfriend was Korean and she took immediate interest in me because I told her I really like K-pop(lie). Had sex with a really cute columbian girl because I was going to "help with her English". We take interest in foreign girls because they are exotic and mysterious. Don't you think they feel the same about us guys? Be that dude they want to explore...

 

[Mike32ct]

Also, would learning some basic dance moves be a good addition to your game?
I'm always quite uptight by nature and wondering if learning to dance would loosen me up a bit.

Absolutely, yes. But be very patient with it. In the short term, it will probably make you look worse on the dance floor because you'll be thinking too much about doing the moves the "right" way at the "right" time. So it can seem awkward, forced, and mechanical at first. Plus, you may be self-conscious about it at first, which is normal. So initially, when you go out, some random drunk guy who doesn't know any moves per se and is just making shyte up might SEEM better than you and get more attention from the females because he's more fun and carefree.

BUT, once you get enough practice and really start to "own" the moves and be able to do them with little or no thinking, you'll look great on the dance floor (and much better than the random drunks lol). That's when it really becomes fun.

 

[LDD]

Thanks for the advice, guys! Appreciate it

From GotED:

If you decide to date cross-culturally, ALWAYS keep in mind that there is going to be a percentage of women you attempt to date outside of your own race who WILL NEVER BE OPEN MINDED TO YOUR RACE.

Regarding this issue, I always thought that if a guy has great game (still working hard towards that goal lol), he can always break past barriers and all that stuff? It's like, the best PUAs in the world can get any chick they want regardless of race, income or whatever.

From Mike32ct:

Absolutely, yes. But be very patient with it. In the short term, it will probably make you look worse on the dance floor because you'll be thinking too much about doing the moves the "right" way at the "right" time.

I'm attending a tango introductory class this week with a friend due to invitation, but any recommendations on which type of dance specifically is "cool" and hot? Tango doesn't even seem that cool enough to make chicks go wow. LOL

 

[GotED?]

Thanks for the advice, guys! Appreciate it

From GotED:

Regarding this issue, I always thought that if a guy has great game (still working hard towards that goal lol), he can always break past barriers and all that stuff? It's like, the best PUAs in the world can get any chick they want regardless of race, income or whatever.

I can probably guarantee that each one of us has strong specific dislike about ever considering dating a woman of certain specific racial background.

This is all I am saying, women are human beings just like us.

Discrimination runs deep in the blood - whether it was brainwashed into our head by our parents while we were innocent children, or from pure natural preference of dislike through our adulthood experiences.

In any case, allow yourself the latitude to not take it personally when rejected.

Exodus

 

[LDD]

Ok guys, currently I'm in talk with some tutors who can teach me the language.
However, some of them were curious and asked me why am I learning the language, to which I reply "Cos' I love to watch shows that has this language etc..."

Does this sound believable? I don't wanna say things like "Cos' I wanna pick up chicks of xxxx race". Sounds creepy to me lol

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

Ok guys, currently I'm in talk with some tutors who can teach me the language.
However, some of them were curious and asked me why am I learning the language, to which I reply "Cos' I love to watch shows that has this language etc..."

Does this sound believable? I don't wanna say things like "Cos' I wanna pick up chicks of xxxx race". Sounds creepy to me lol

Just say you are fascinated with the culture and are thinking about pursuing a career there one day. "Fascinated with the culture" can imply picking up women as well, so its a statement that can be interpreted however they want, without you having to be direct about it.