"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Meeting at A Bar

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So tonight im meeting a girl at a bar...

I met her online yeah yeah lame...

She asked me to come...

Anyone ever met someone online then actually went out and met them? How does this work out for you usually?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sure, a few times. mixed reviews--one time the girl was MUCH younger than she had said (too young to go to the club with me) and extremely lame. so i gave her the slip early. another time no chemistry, another time a great one-night stand...

just show up and see what happens!
 

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I showed up and we had a great time.

Potential LTR stuff we had great chemistry and didn't stop the conversation all night I had her smiling the whole time Great EC too we didn't realize what time it was before the bartender walks up and says you can finish this conversation outside we're closing haha.
 
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