"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Meeting at A Bar

HalfAddict

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2005
Messages
773
Reaction score
29
Age
43
Location
Oklahoma where the wind comes sweeping down the pl
So tonight im meeting a girl at a bar...

I met her online yeah yeah lame...

She asked me to come...

Anyone ever met someone online then actually went out and met them? How does this work out for you usually?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

smoke city

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2004
Messages
197
Reaction score
0
sure, a few times. mixed reviews--one time the girl was MUCH younger than she had said (too young to go to the club with me) and extremely lame. so i gave her the slip early. another time no chemistry, another time a great one-night stand...

just show up and see what happens!
 

HalfAddict

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2005
Messages
773
Reaction score
29
Age
43
Location
Oklahoma where the wind comes sweeping down the pl
I showed up and we had a great time.

Potential LTR stuff we had great chemistry and didn't stop the conversation all night I had her smiling the whole time Great EC too we didn't realize what time it was before the bartender walks up and says you can finish this conversation outside we're closing haha.
 
Top