"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Meeting an online chick at a club tonite!

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She's in town and called me so we could meetup tonite at a club... I've been real depressed lately that I even have a hard time communicating....Sometimes I just stutter or just dont make sense.. I haven't gotten some in the longest and I'm a handsome guy... my self esteem is just **** right now...
What would you do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Midnight Carnival

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You're just going to have fun and get to know someone better, that's all. Remember that and nothing else, cut the "what ifs" away from your mind, you basically have not only nothing to lose but everything to gain from this. If you're feeling depressed, then this is what you need. It's perfect.
 
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Boschy

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I'm stuck at home with IdealBabes.Com. Be thankful, boy!
 
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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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To really improve, you've gotta take this more offline.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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hpnotiq said:
She's in town and called me so we could meetup tonite at a club...
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By "in town" do you mean that she's just visiting and you will have little ongoing contact with her if any?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I take it you haven't met this girl before? If so, keep your expectations WAY down, especially at a club (distractions galore).
Like MC said, have fun. Talk to other girls and guys, especially if she flakes.
 
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