"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Meeting an online chick at a club tonite!

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She's in town and called me so we could meetup tonite at a club... I've been real depressed lately that I even have a hard time communicating....Sometimes I just stutter or just dont make sense.. I haven't gotten some in the longest and I'm a handsome guy... my self esteem is just **** right now...
What would you do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Midnight Carnival

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You're just going to have fun and get to know someone better, that's all. Remember that and nothing else, cut the "what ifs" away from your mind, you basically have not only nothing to lose but everything to gain from this. If you're feeling depressed, then this is what you need. It's perfect.
 
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Boschy

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I'm stuck at home with IdealBabes.Com. Be thankful, boy!
 
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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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To really improve, you've gotta take this more offline.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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hpnotiq said:
She's in town and called me so we could meetup tonite at a club...
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By "in town" do you mean that she's just visiting and you will have little ongoing contact with her if any?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I take it you haven't met this girl before? If so, keep your expectations WAY down, especially at a club (distractions galore).
Like MC said, have fun. Talk to other girls and guys, especially if she flakes.
 
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