"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guy, I haven't been posting my field experiences on here like I said I would be... the important thing is I've been out doing it though.

Anyways, I'm meeting up with a girl from a college 1 town over tonight and we're going to watch a movie and bake up some cookies. She's the RA of one of the dorms and is on duty tonight and can't leave. I don't care. I just want to hook up with the girl. I would appreciate any suggestions you all have, particularly on isolating the girl. She knows a lot of people down at the college since she's an RA and she's probably going to want to watch the movie in one of the lobbies... We hang out one other time last week for about an hour and she showed me her room, but there is no furniture in it except for her bed. But we need to end up in her room because there really aren't a lot of private places anywhere else in the residence hall. If we watch the movie (Dirty Dancing by the way) in one of the lobbies, it's almost guaranteed there will be other people there, and that will make it much harder to escalate things. What do you all suggest? I don't feel like we have enough report for me to tell her we're watching the movie in her room, but who knows.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, just watch the movie on the computer, on the bed. In my dorm everyone just sat on the beds in someone's room to watch movies.
 
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Dude, just watch the movie on the computer, on the bed. In my dorm everyone just sat on the beds in someone's room to watch movies.
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Ok. I'll bring it on my flashdrive. Now, how am I supposed to make sure we end up there rather than in a common area?
 
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Ok. I'll bring it on my flashdrive. Now, how am I supposed to make sure we end up there rather than in a common area?
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"Oh hey, let's just watch it in your room."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just tell you'll make her happy, baby. She'll wait and see. For every kiss she gives you, you'll give her three. So won't you please be my little baby. Say you'll be my darling, be my baaby nooow. Ooh, ohh, ohh, ohh, oh.

Yeah, how did it go? :)
 
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