"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meeting a girl tonight

ebracer05

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Hey guy, I haven't been posting my field experiences on here like I said I would be... the important thing is I've been out doing it though.

Anyways, I'm meeting up with a girl from a college 1 town over tonight and we're going to watch a movie and bake up some cookies. She's the RA of one of the dorms and is on duty tonight and can't leave. I don't care. I just want to hook up with the girl. I would appreciate any suggestions you all have, particularly on isolating the girl. She knows a lot of people down at the college since she's an RA and she's probably going to want to watch the movie in one of the lobbies... We hang out one other time last week for about an hour and she showed me her room, but there is no furniture in it except for her bed. But we need to end up in her room because there really aren't a lot of private places anywhere else in the residence hall. If we watch the movie (Dirty Dancing by the way) in one of the lobbies, it's almost guaranteed there will be other people there, and that will make it much harder to escalate things. What do you all suggest? I don't feel like we have enough report for me to tell her we're watching the movie in her room, but who knows.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude, just watch the movie on the computer, on the bed. In my dorm everyone just sat on the beds in someone's room to watch movies.
 

ebracer05

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handle said:
Dude, just watch the movie on the computer, on the bed. In my dorm everyone just sat on the beds in someone's room to watch movies.
Ok. I'll bring it on my flashdrive. Now, how am I supposed to make sure we end up there rather than in a common area?
 

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ebracer05 said:
Ok. I'll bring it on my flashdrive. Now, how am I supposed to make sure we end up there rather than in a common area?
"Oh hey, let's just watch it in your room."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just tell you'll make her happy, baby. She'll wait and see. For every kiss she gives you, you'll give her three. So won't you please be my little baby. Say you'll be my darling, be my baaby nooow. Ooh, ohh, ohh, ohh, oh.

Yeah, how did it go? :)
 
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