"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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meeting a girl in an hour... at night :S

tony-montana

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okay im meeting some girl i only just met last night on the internet. we got to know each other a bit on chat. now it just happens she literally lives down the road (maybe 3 mins walk) - she thought i was kidding and was a friend making jokes. she told me to prove it and call her so i did. and she believed me. she wanted to meet the same night but said she was too tired. i wouldnt of met anyway. couldnt be fuked. but she said we'll meet tomorrow night (today) - so i told her to gimme a buz when she wants to meet. she did... about ten mins ago. shes on her way home from work and text me saying "we still meeting? 7pm?" i replied "sure, 7 it is."

but ive never done a night time meet i dont think. i feel a bit weird. i think shes planning on sitting in her car and waiting for me to jump in. not sure how im gonna play this out. i never really met a girl this fast and at night time. if shes willing to meet me this desperately it could seem like she might just wanna fuk?

seen her pics. shes got a pretty face. natural... but shes not thin. probably chubby.. ive never slept with a fat girl before. im getting old anyway... just moved here... need to meet girls i suppose?

any ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Go with the flow, and see where the night takes you. If you dont wanna **** her, she could be your link to meeting loads more people around the same age as you, so be nice ;)
 

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met her. we got a bit drunk. parked up at some hang out place at a park. it took me ages to make a move cause she didnt make it easy. kept talking about un interesting sh!t but i listened and pretended i cared. so i started massaging her (usually that gets them in the mood) and i went for a piss and came back... kissed her a bit. at one stage of when we were making out she stopped me i think she thought i was tryin to grab her tits i was goin to grab her face. but she stopped me and said "no wait..." i said what... she says "we're friends yeah? friends dont do this" - i said "sure .. friends kiss." and she said "oh okay then i guess ill start kissing all my friends" and we made out some more.

so im not sure if it was just the alcohol in her letting me kiss her? or she did like me? she did say she enjoyed the night and let me kiss her again when i said goodbye. but fuk she loved my massage .. said i had good hands :p

i said gimme a kiss for that massage and she said no i dont have to (laughed) and i said come on... so she kissed my cheek and i said nooo a proper one. so she did it again and i turned my head and kissed her mouth.

tomorrow she wants to go see a movie with me and shes bringing alcohol in there lol. and we gonna go clubbing on weekend.

anyway... tomorrow at the cinema should i try make more moves like grab her tits? or is it too early. didnt get the feeling she'd let me do it tonight.

damn what a night!
 
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