"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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meet the girl and just kiss her! (at the club)

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Guys, are you too shy to talk to girls but still feel like ur good looking enough to get them? well, i have felt like this b4 sometimes, so when I am at the club, let me tell you what I have done on about 5 occassions which worked wonders:


I go up to a girl, start grindin with her (doesnt matter if its from the front or from behind, and i dont say a thing to her), then i make eye contact from close up as we are grinding, and i go make out with her.....i think that from all the times i tried this, i been able to make out with a girl who ive known for about 10-30 seconds, and its worked id say about 8 outta 10 times...and of course after the kisisng, ud be surprised how easy it is to talk and get the # close (maybe even take the girl home)..............................keep in mind, this works only if ur good looking, most preferebly with a nice looking face since ur goin for a kiss within 30 seconds,



anyway, doesnt that just sound like easy ass rite there?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeh..... If you're to shy to say "hi" to a girl just walk up to her grope her and kiss her :rolleyes:

Listen amateur KBJ if you want to learn a few things hang around this site if you want to give unsolicited advice to impressionable people go somewhere else.
 

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hey some people just dont know how to talk to girls, and this grinding - kissing thing is exactly wat they need, a way to hook up without even having to have to talk
 

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im talkin about my personal experience here....bottom line is, its worked to not even talk to a girl and look her in the eyes and start makin out on the dancefloor, if it works for me, then i suggest others try it, esp the ones who arent good talkers, deff nothin amateur bout that tip buddy
 

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It takes more balls to grope a chik then to talk to a chick.

So how does your advice help shy guys?

If they are afraid to say "Hi" what are the chances that they will grab a girl?

ZeRooo
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Actually his advice will work. I have been clubbing for a long time and it will definitely work if you are good looking. It's just like the advice on this site. Kino when you first meet a girl.:D

This section is for FR and giving advice on what works. This has worked for him multiple times and I believe him.
 

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thank you OOBM....its true, if ur good lookin and cant seem to say the rite things, then **** talking, just go up to the slut and grind, kino her ass, and kiss her, it works and if u get rejected, then all uve done is wasted about a minute of ur time and u can move on to another girl....its gauranteeed there r a few girls in every club who will like this kind of behavior
 

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Originally posted by skip2mylou781
thank you OOBM....its true, if ur good lookin and cant seem to say the rite things, then **** talking, just go up to the slut and grind, kino her ass, and kiss her, it works and if u get rejected, then all uve done is wasted about a minute of ur time and u can move on to another girl....its gauranteeed there r a few girls in every club who will like this kind of behavior
Keyword you use here is slut. Any girl who will kiss me without talking with me first is easy and not worth my time. And my time is precious, so I spend it wisely.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i'm sure you probably had success doing this, but i find it hard to believe that you successfully pulled this off 8 times out of ten
 

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it's not that easy bro. if you did this 8 out of 10 times and are not BSing us then you have more up your sleeve then just looks. you obviously project a great auro of confidence and command that women must find irresistible. you also probably know how to dance great. these are all things we must learn in time. just doing it will yeild bad results for most people that aren’t you.
 

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This guy contradicts himself he was saying in his other post his success rate is 1 out of every 10 girls he approaches and here he says 8 out of every 10.

He is a KBJ.
 

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This is too funny, first of all you've assumed too much. Just because you're good looking does not I repeat DOES NOT give you the ability to hook up with every girl you meet within 30 seconds. Girls are not competely retarded and definately not push overs that just go around hooking up with random dudes.

Second, and this is a key point here, if the girl is in the club with her 200lb steroid boy friend do you think he's just going to stand there while you attempt to make out with his girl? Clearly not, more then likely he'll politely ask you to not try to make out with his girlfriend...with his fist.

Now I'm not saying you CAN'T make out with girls on the dance floor because i've done that tons of times. But not talking and just going for it all the time is just not smart. It only takes a second to say hello, dance for at least a minute or so maybe a little addtional convo, then if you feel its right make out with the girl. "Just do it" is a good saying for tennis shoes but having a strategy is the basis for sucess.
 

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i think ive picked my spots very well, id usually end up making out with girls on the dance floor really fast because there was incredible eye contact before we'd ever start dancing (we'd be staring at each other as i walked up to make the approach).....so i guess what i need to throw in is this:

IF A GIRL IS GIVING U CRAZY EYE CONTACT FOR THE FIRST 30 SECONDS, U BASICALLY WONT GET REJECTED FROM A KISS


sorry i forgot to add the eye contact thing in before, cuz that really does give me the green light to go for the kiss with confidence.............


and yea LEVITHIAN, lemme make u a point.....i get the # from 1 outta every 10 girls i message online, but this 1 outta 10 thing does not apply to ANYTHING ELSE, so stop ****in throwing it around like 1/10 is my magic number, its ONLY MY RATIO FOR GETTING GIRL'S NUMBERS AFTER MESSAGING THEM ON MYSPACE


ur a fruit levithian
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by gongxia649
how can i tell im a good looking guy?
Look in the mirror
 

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I got a better one, spot a hottie with a skirt on Just walk up to her with your kok out, lift her skirt, slide her panties to the side and shove it in.

Works like a charm, I have a 100% sucess ratio
 

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One of my friends does this all the time...He starts dancing, then talking with her, then he gets really freaky with her, and then he starts making out with her...Only problem is that he complains that the girl wasnt that banging, but thats his problem...I was about to try this the other night cause me and this broad were getting all hot and heavy with each other and I was about to go in for it, but her friend hated and dragged her off...One broad wanted me and my friend to run a G Train on her in the corner of the club, but too many dudes swarmed on her and Im not fighting over a broad...Another one of by friends got his dikk sucked in the club...One girl tried to get me to hit, but I had no rubber and I was about to kum from grinding so I left and she got mad...So basically if the girl likes you enough you can get away with this...

EDIT - They gotta be drunk too, cause the Anti Slut Defence comes off then they drink...I havent seen anyone do this when the girl is sober...
 

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I can attest to this. I was in a club this summer, and there was this fine girl I had spotted. I go up to her, start dancing ... within 30 seconds of dancing, we're making out in the middle of the dance floor.

The important detail here is that she was drunk. That's a REQUIREMENT for success in this operation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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