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[brujonovato]

Hi Folks!

I am writing this message in order to obtain all the help you would be so kind to provide me. Here´s my story: I am 28 years old guy who met online a 25 years old cute girl. We have talked since like one month and half a we are just having a great time together. I have done some moronic things like telling her I am not a handsome man , but she says she finds me fine. The problem is that in my pics dont show the fact than I have lots of gray hair and this particulary problem makes me very insecure since I havent told her about that in order to not appear insecure!!! :crazy: . Anyway, what I need now it is motivation and whatever piece of advice you gentlemen could tell to me.. We are going to meet like in a couple of weeks and I am scared a hell lot of it..I want to appear like a confident and funny guy but it is easier telling that than doing it. Thanks in advance!!!!!

 

[OceanWindRider]

Ok, dude. This is a typical case of a limiting belief.
Meaning "gray hair = not handsome = not attractive or even unbeareably ugly" association is in your head.
This is all BS. Don't sweat it!

Now, you can find an NLP practiotioner to help you or some friend who knows NLP and can help you get rid of this limiting belief. Should take like 15 minutes or half an hour.

Limiting beliefs are highly illogical. So it's hard to get rid of.

Meanwhile, while you're searching for some help, you can dye your hair black or whatever your color is. Just like girls do. It's painless and pretty cheap.

Problem solved

Good luck,
OceanWindRider

 

[DasaniWater]

Yeah dye your hair. Spare 30 minutes of yourself to make hours and hours of pain before u meet her go away.