"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Medical school = no girls or life?

applesaucemcgee01

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I was wondering if any of you guys know any good DJs or players that are in medical school or are doctors? I plan on going to medical school in the future, but it seems that if i take this path, it would drain my time, energy and desire in laying as many HBs as possible. You are poor as hell, so you can't really go on many vacations or dates, you spend all your days and nights studying, and you fail to create any exciting hobbies such as having a band or just plain being a badass doing something else. It just seems like being an alpha and becoming a doctor would never fit together. Can someone please prove me wrong and tell me i'm an idiot?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diablo

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You're 18. Come back in 3-4 years when you've finished your undergrad and ask again... why worry about something that isn't going to happen for half a decade.
 

EternalBachelor

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Hey don't sweat. Ever heard of the doctors and nurses phenomonem. As a doctor you will be able to pick up endless hot nurses who look up to you because you are a doctor. There is a lot of truth in this. My dad was a doctor and my mum was a nurse and that was how they met.

Sure you won't have so much time for DJing but you will meet girls on your course and you do get some time off study. If anything because you are more focused you will be more attractive to girls.

Plus when you graduate you will be making lots of money and that never fails to attract women.
 

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I worked as a Network tech for a large hospital for four years. I've seen alot of people drooling over the doctors. If your a young single doctor, your in. Some may be gold diggers, but many nurses make good money too. They are more interested in docs because they are smart hard working success stories. Even the residents, making 30k get lots of play. And with all their loans and what not they are POOR. I remember setting up VPN access for alot of these guys. They would all use dialup because they couldn't afford broadband. But they had plenty of girls.

But as stated, get your undergrad degree. This may entirely be a moot point. Work hard as if you had every intention of med school. You may get out in the real world for a few years, be done playing around, and go back to med school at 30 or 40. You'll still want your grades to reflect you can do the work. An old friend of mine from the hospital was a carpenter for years. Went to med school just before he turned 40.

Good Luck

Loke
 
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