"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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medical field jobs?

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In LA, San Francisco etc medical field pays. You can save a ton if taxes don't kill you and you live humble .

Where you guys live can medical folks make enough to splurge? Meaning rent or housing is all I'm working to pay.

How'd Vegas? Social night life is the shyzbnit I'm sure.

Lived in Florida and I sacrificed some things to be beach body healthy so I'm thinking that is the spot for healthy bodies.. Plus Miami is comparable to LA , better even.

Medical field is much like cops firefighters...can go anywhere basically.

But geezuz northern Cali women are on some different weed cuz the egos mixed in with not having a beach body because the weather is not hot so fvck it why even make the effort....wtf

I'm tired of being the healthy sexy older ish dude who still had youth superficially.
Granted, I can be a bit boring since all I do is eat well, work, and exercise, and sleep.
Then party.

Northern Cali is full of computer guys...and girls..
A sedentary environment like that breeds not triceps or muscles.
A city who's majority is fit people in their 20s and 30s is what I want.
Is there a city in north America that embodies that? If not I'm seriously thinking Brazil or Colombia cuz at least my dollar will go far in a place that has no jack in the box.
Not a rant....just want more bang for my buck
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some ideas:

Austin
Miami
Chattanooga
Fayetteville AR
Raleigh/Durham NC

Las Vegas is also a great town to reside in. Many of the venues have "local" nights where residents do not pay the tourist cover or tourist prices. And of course the shopping, entertainment and diversion options are world class. Generally a very clean city once you get away from the strip. Until they run out of water things are great in the desert.

Just realize that if you do not have discipline regarding certain behaviors Vegas especially can be your worst enemy. I trust you do not have this problem but Vegas slays many newbies on the altar of decadence.
 
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