"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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disgustipated

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Hmm so had an epiphany. I know.for sure I came up beleiving in the fairy tale type image that if I kept chasing women and being Mr nice guy that I would get my soulmate....never knew girls could.ever be anything other than sugar and spice. Now, I had to of picked this up through.media because mom.wasn't beating that theme into my head.

If boys coming up beleived this, why wouldn't the same thing be believed.by girls...especially if.their male piers are acting like the medias representations.of themselves. And what is that? They can have a dude on the side that their heart is torn apart over, make you jump through hoops, be wishy washy, view you.as a bumbling fool and STILL expect you to pursue her ending in some drawn out melodramatic scene where you profess your everlasting love to her.

I mean if its true, and we know it is, that young men are coming up with warped view then why wouldn't it be true that same thing.is.happening to young women?

This has always been taken with a grain of salt for.me but thinking about it like this its finally sunk in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Examining this.more, typically guys need a ruthless ***** to snap us out of this way of thinking...that's why I recommend getting ones heart broken. But what event can serve this purpose for women? If theyre perpetually playing hate to.get, can they ever fall hate enough to get their heart broken? I suppose, but far less than guys. But I guess moreso, 2 things happen. Guys do indeed line up to chase her and eventually.she picks the best potential partner out of those orbiters, per Rollos wall theory. I've personally seen this and been a victim to it...no hate, because it works and is the male counterpart.to spinning plates. The other way they end up is, not picking an orbiter and staying on.the carousel far too long....way past her prime and is.left indignant that her white knight hasn't arrived. Evidenced by the plethora of pof profiles of 30 plus women with headlines like...where are the real mean at, I need w real man, looking for.my soulmate, not settling, etc etc. These are women that never had that catalyst to jar them out of that fake reality.
 

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The thing you must understand is that the 'media' is the mouthpiece of a system

and that system is fueled by laboring men paying taxes and consuming

now if you create a reality where men are forever chasing women buying them rings, weddings, trips to far off lands, houses..under the false ideal of 'romance'...well frankly there is a lot of money to be made off of lovesick, desperate men/husbands who blindly worship women the media has the lowliest hairdresser or starbucks chick thinking she is inherently better than steve jobs as a human and 99% of global AFC men would believe this.

this is the benefit of giving women every societal benefit...it has been known by kings that the common man is a moron who can be easily manipulated...so women at large were given the power to manipulate men in financial terms and only the strongest of men resist this...so 99% become effectual wage slaves by chasing women their entire adult lives....dating, courtship, LTR, marriage, divorce all are very profitable to banking and industry as it keeps men on a perpetual wheel of labor.

@disgust

media set trends and influence....although they claim to reflect...the media is an effective tool of slave management...these tools have been well known since ancient times....during ancient roman times the satirist Juvenal accused his fellow citizens of selling out for bribes of “bread and circuses.”...this is the same today...it is the media's role to ferment the 'circus' of the modern day so the 'citizens' do not attack their rulers...in this way women have been utilized to contain men....men will go to any lengths to secure females and the state by molding females into perfect man hating narcissists have assured that men have nothing in their lives to fight for...thus they are enslaved
 
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Does.media just reflect or.report what's going on, or do they actually set trends and influence?

Where did I get this idealized vision of.what women were?
 

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She is waiting for her prince, yet no man is capable of filling that role which she perceives she deserves.
Haha so true! Why does she feel she DESERVES it? Because she looks pretty.
She had enough $$ for fake skin colouring (make-up and tanning) fake hair-colouring, fake lips, fake eyelashes, waxed eyebrows, fake height, fake attitude, some of them are even rocking undies with fake bums in them, and I have pulled cotton-stuffing out of bras before too, not too mention all the breast implants they get.

She feels she deserves prince charming because she's a (fake) princess.

Their attitudes are exactly like Burroughs mentioned in regards to Steve Jobs. They could be a coffee shop clerk, but think they are better than me, an incorporated company owner, and leader of 30 men, because they are GOOD LOOKING. Lame!

Its time to start calling their bluffs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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