"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Media keep "betasing" man

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Look at this commercial from lacoste, this attitude that is intended to seem romantic on a advertisement, is the behavior that will kill your chances with most sexy girls (or even most girls).

The guy kisses her with tremendous fear on his eyes. This is exactly the attitude that I've changed in myself, one of the key ingredients to bed sexy ladies is to not fear them. Which may seem very difficult at the beginning..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5piuEMo9Ik8
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wouldn't say the media was 'betasing' men...if you're a 'beta' then you're a 'beta' T.V. Shows and adverts aren't going to change that.

There is, has been and always will be sh*t like this in the media, whether it be sitcoms, adverts or in the news and we don't need to make a thread for every one of them.
 

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The title was perhaps not very well posted. Still, I honestly don't know how influent these advertisements, music, movies etc. can be. But the image that is passed is just ridiculous, no man should behave like this.

This is in clear opposition with most music about how women don't need a man and stuff like that.
 

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Danger said:
Not entirely true.

As a man, we are more prone to logic and many studies show that people are influenced by actions they see. The old monkey-see monkey-do bit, etc,...
The fact is neither of us behave that way, and this has been happening for a LONG time so it isn't news any more.

However this particular advert does irritate me.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdFP9PUVerM

I can't find the English translation.
 

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if the media were not an influencing form of medium then they would not be in existance.

much of newspapers report only a fraction of what goes on in the everyday world but we only know the news they report. they help shape the cultural world we live in.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Multiply this commercial by the hundreds, if not thousands and yes, it is quite influential.
3agle 3yes said:
The fact is neither of us behave that way, and this has been happening for a LONG time so it isn't news any more.
We aren't all at the same level of development. There is a constant influx of boys/men who have no idea they're being indoctrinated. I think it's healthy to keep things like this at the forefront. Men who are "aware" are in the minority. The rest will conform to whatever the status quo is and be ruled by any and all things PC, to their detriment.
 

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This has beeing going on since they started teaching us a feminine perspective on love. Disney movies, romantic comedies, movies.

We have this stuff all around us as kids as we are learning basic concepts. This isn't anything new.

Whether you want to admit it or not, the media is one of the most influential things.

When your young the media, family, friends, and school influences you. The media influences your friends and your family, they influence you.
 
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