"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Meatspace Necessary?

John Winter

John Winter

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I realize im supposed to read the entire bible before making the first post, and I'm in the process of reading it at the moment, so I skimmed through the titles to see if it was covered. If it is I didn't see it:

Approaching women is obviously very central to the entire process and yes there are a thousand excuses for not approaching women, but I think mine is a little more... Legitimate?

I live in the boondocks and don't usually see a female my age for about a month at a time, when I go to a bookstore or something. I live and work on my family's farm, I'm probably not going to leave anytime soon and I'm kind of stuck here.

Does my approach *need* to happen in person, if usually the only chance I honestly get to speak to women is online?

Even if I did get a chicks number in person (which I've been waiting for a chance for since New Years) It'd still wind up being a mostly online relationship because of friggin geography.

There are three girls I've been talking to in particular who I think may have some potential but I really don't see how I could pull this off.

How can you handle a situation like this when you're in rural isolation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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