"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Meat & Potatoes training

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This article was written by miked96 from the Muscle and Brawn forum.

I have trained all my life in some form or fashion and have tried everything, from Cybergenics to EDT. Through experimentation I have found some simple ways to design your training that would serve you well for a long time. Ladies and Gentlemen, meat and potato training:

http://muscleandbrawn.com/meat-potatoes-training-method-designing-workouts/

The Meat

(1) The Meat – No matter your goals, concentrate your efforts in getting strong in the big three. There are all types of training methods with different tempos and crazy exercises but if you want to get bigger then the easiest, fastest, and measurable way is to get stronger in those three basic exercises.

I have never run into a really strong guy in the big three that didn’t look like he trained. No matter if you want to lose or gain weight, use the weights to build strength and the muscle will follow.

The Potatoes

(2) The Potatoes – Concentrate on the meat and if there is room eat the potatoes (assistance lifts). Don’t believe that there is some special exercise that is going to do something that the big three doesn’t. The best assistance exercises actually mimic the big three and build your strength for them.

Pause squats, close and wide grips, board presses, rack or block pulls, and still-leg deadlift have their place but never forget that they are there to make you stronger in the basics. Eat the meat first.

Dessert

(3) Dessert – If there is still room then use the rest of your time doing exercises that can help you stay balanced and healthy. Rear delts, curls, what have you.

Programs

(4) Programs – No special programs. Beware the ones that move you away from the meat and potatoes. I don’t care what program you do, as long as you are consistently hammering the basics it’s a good program. Pick one and give it a shot.

Don’t jump around! I did this constantly and it led to nowhere.

Consistency

(5) Consistency – This is what builds strength and muscle. Results will always be cyclical. My bench took off and my deadlift lay stagnant for months. Then my pulls increase but my bench may have gone up five pounds in the last couple of months.

It doesn’t matter, just keep training and pushing. It’s the sum that matters not the parts.

Competing

(6) Competing – Your lifts will take off once you send that entry form in and begin regularly competing in whatever your sport is. I asked Dave Tate what was a good total to start competing and he told me zero. Great advice. I ignored it to my detriment.

It doesn’t matter what you lift, you are competing against yourself and there is always somebody stronger. So go for it.

I started competing three years ago with a 365 Squat, 315 Bench, and a 455 pull. I competed 5 times that first year and my lifts moved to 475, 365, and 540. More progress than I had made in 15 years!

I took a year off from competing and actually totaled less at my first meet back. Learned my lesson and competed six times this last year and moved to 545, 400, and 605. Remember, it’s about your progress.

How to design your workouts

The following is a great way to keep your workouts simple and effective no matter what your situation. It would probably help Jim Wendler in having to answer a million questions about assistance lifts.

You look at your workouts like a meal (steak, potatoes, vegetable, dessert). According to your goals, every lift falls into a different portion on your plate. If you are looking to get bigger and stronger:

Steak:
Squat
Bench
Dead lift

Potato (main assistance):
Squat Dinner: Pause or Box Squat
Bench Dinner: Board, WG, CG bench. Military
Dead lift Dinner: SL dead, Racks, RDL

Vegetable: (secondary assistance)
Lower Dinner: Leg curl, GHR, Rows, Shrugs, Abs
Upper Dinner: Chins, Dips, Rear Delts

Dessert: (whatever you like)
Calf raises, curls, whatever

Like I said it will be different according to your goal. An Olympic lifter will have the Snatch and Clean and Jerk as his steak and maybe front squats and Jerks as his Potato.

Now you are always going to eat as much steak as you can first, then the potato maybe some vegetables and after all of that maybe a little room for dessert. Just like your hunger varies, your time and life commitments are going to vary.

Got a lot of time and well rested. Eat a big meal. Only got thirty minutes to train. Just eat the steak.

Example: Legs.
Squat first and bust your butt. Do not try to save room for anything else.
Pause Squats: A little bit of potato and I am really feeling full.
GHR: a few sets and that’s it I am full for today.
No dessert for me.

Watch out for menus (programs) with a lot of everything else and no meat. Too many people major in the minor. You have to prioritize things because you don’t have infinite energy or time. Do not waste it on the dessert.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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