Measuring Your GF with Christmas

[Desdinova]

I'm just thinking back to some of the Christmases that I've had with women, especially the ones within the last five years. I think you can really measure how great your connection is with your GF by what you can think of what they'd like for gifts.

There was one Christmas I had a few years back. I was only with the girl for 3 months by the time Christmas rolled around, but I had absolutely no problem choosing gifts for her, and she enjoyed every one of them. This was a chick I was able to really connect well with on the first date.

My current GF whom I've been with for 6 months... well.... Ummm... Booze? Maybe??? Not that she's an alcoholic, but it's the best default gift you can get. It's also the gift that says "I have no fvcking clue what you like, so here's some alcohol to help you forget about how shallow our connection is"

The thing that I've noticed is the chicks who seem to have the fewest things in common with me always fall the hardest for me. She treats me good, but if I were to choose an activity we enjoy doing together, the only thing I could come up with is sex.

This is one of those situations where you think to yourself, "I could really use a chick whom I have more fun with and have a better connection with, but I don't wanna go through the bull5hit of dealing with low-grade chicks again." This is one of those chicks I'll probably hold onto until something better comes along. Usually when that better chick comes along, my gut will scream at me to ditch my current one. The gut is always right.

Anyway, I'm rambling. Anybody else notice that they can measure their compatibility with their woman by how easily (or difficult) they can come up with gift ideas?

 

[Glumix]

You have been in a LTR with a girl only for sex? And you spend Christmas time with her?
Are you sure you are not lying to yourself? I mean... 6 months?!

Buy her a dildo with your name on it.

I try to offer only experiences I can share with her. But yeah, when there is no connection and I want to share only sex, then I buy stuff.

Once, I offered a full week-end to one of my GF, with hotel room, dinner, etc... She was not happy because I didn't write her a f-cking card.

So yeah, the best default gift for a girl is to give her a mark of your attention & love and to etch your name in her mind. But when you do not want to do that, then you buy booze...

 

[Desdinova]

You have been in a LTR with a girl only for sex? And you spend Christmas time with her?
Are you sure you are not lying to yourself? I mean... 6 months?!

Sex and companionship. That's all it really is and that's all relationships are really worth. I'm not getting married again and I have no plans on living with her. She tried bringing that up, and I told her I don't want marriage. She just said, "We'll talk about that on a later date". Fine by me, but I still don't wanna fvcking get married again and I don't see that changing anytime soon. I told her there's better ways to show love than signing a legal document.

As long as she's treating me good and is low maintenance, I have no problem keeping her around. If she becomes a pain in the ass, I'll get rid of her. Sure I could be fvcking other chicks, but I honestly don't have the time to go out looking for them nor the desire to put up with most women's stupid bull5hit. Hell, I barely have enough time to spend with my existing GF. Having her stick around is more convenient than having to go out and put effort into getting laid by some dumb bytch. I'm just not interested in making the pursuit of worthless women a high priority in my life. The reward is rarely worth the effort.

 

[Glumix]

Sex and companionship

Seems to me that if you only think about buying her booze then the companionship is not that good... except you are an alcoholic or suffer some other dependencies.

So yeah, sex... you can offer her some sort of scenario in which you will end up f-cking her so hard that she will never leave your d-ck alone in the near future.
That will most probably improve the only connection you have with her.