"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mean vs. Indifference

bcnu

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So where do you cross the line? Obviously their is a difference, but how would you go about explaining the effects?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

disgustipated

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One is emotion driven.

One is devoid of emotion.

If you tell a girl you love her, and she says **** you you ****bag...that comes off as mean BUT there is enough emotion there to tell you she was moved enough to make a response like that.

If her reaction is one of indifference and she looks at you all straightfaced and give you zero emotion, that's worse.

Just an example of how in one situation I'd rather have the mean reaction over an indifferent one.
 

Greasy Pig

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I agree. Indifference hurts more than meanness.
 
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