ME STORY

[190cmofcancer]

I went shopping and holded EC to all the goodlooking women. They always turn their eyes somewhere else before me.

However there was one that I didnt EC to - she was a friend of the more attactive person. So the average (but would bang) that looked me couple times and even smiled (I think).

Its impressing. How she knew she has to smile to me?

But anyway. I didnt smile. I hate my smile. im not ugliest creature on the planet. I like my look. BUT I HATE MY SMILE. I feel like i look dumb or creep with it.


What I do?

 

[QuadDeuces]

If your smile looks weird, grow a beard.

 

[wifehunter]

 

[sazc]

I dated someone once who never smiled with his teeth because his mother had told him, when he was young, that he didnt look good smiling with his teeth. What horrible thing for a mom to say. Hopefully this isnt your situation?

You didnt say what you didnt like about your smile? You can always get your teeth addressed if this is the issue.

In general, maybe you can find a "smile" that you like by trying different ones in the mirror? Once you find a pleasant, inviting facial expression that you feel good about, take a moment, close your eyes, and feel it. then turn away from the mirror and try to replicate it from what it felt like. turn back to the mirror and see how well you did. Continue this until you know what that look 'feels' like when you 'wear' it.

I once thought I was holding the look of a subtle smile to people. When I finally made the same facial expression and looked at it in the mirror, i realized my assumed subtle smile visually cam off as more of a grimace.

Sometimes we just need to find a look we want to 'show' and then practice it in the mirror until we know how the look 'feels' so we know that we are correctly replicating it in public.

Good luck!