Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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me over 40 her 26, I played hard to get and got hot sex

englishman

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This might even sound like BS or an exageration to some here, but I assure you its not.
I was travelling s.e. asia earlier this year staying in hostel/guest house accomodation, I met HB9 gorgeous european backpacking babe who was almost intimidating with her beauty.
It became apparent that she was into me, to be honest Ive never had trouble atracting the babes, but sh1t Im getting on now and this babe was well only a few years older than my daughter!
So I ignored her, as most the other guys kissed her ass, I poked fun at her calling her a 'femme fetal' I told her jokingly that I had turned into a slut since I had been travelling, which only seemed to make her more interested.
In the end she asked me to travel with her to another country, but I declined so she went alone.
Anyway we stayed in touch by email and talked on the phone a couple of times, recently I took a trip to europe and called her up in her city unexpectedly, I was fully ready for rejection, I mean sh1t I hadnt called her or asked, but she was really exited to hear from me, we met for drinks.
I had called over 10 hotels and all were full, so I said hate to lay it on you like this but can I sleep at yours tonight? she said yep ok!
So we arrived at her apartment and I took a shower as I'd been travelling for a couple of days, well I was in the shower and the door opens, there she was naked and walked in the shower, she said to me, "I hope this is ok" lol.......you can guess the rest;-)
we spent a few days together and she acted like a spoiled brat, and in the end I thought fvck this, I dont need it, so on our last night we went on the town and I thought bollocks Im getting drunk, which I did and by the end of the night started to give her a load of verbal, she was super body concious like hot babes usually are, so I told her she had a fat ass etc, made her buy the drinks and pay for the taxi home, I even pissed in the sink when we got back, next day I left, with almost no goodbye!

I thought ah well, thats the end of that and thats ok, Im a travelling man doing what I like, living my life as I planned it and I just laid hb9 age 26, not bad for a dude my age! and figured that was the end of that! went on to sleep with 2 more babes before returning home.

I was going to write to this forum asking if any one had any tips to maybe get her back on track, however she emailed me today suggesting that she come over here for a road trip we talked about taking when we were in s.e. asia, not bad for an old git! :cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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good job! got a picture of her lol?

kind of off track here, which countries did you visit ?
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Well done Commodore, I salute you.
 

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We need more of this on this site, more success stories. Job well done.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Freddy1

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Congrates Englishman! Brothers have to stick together

(I'm doing practically the same thing with a young women who is 16 yrs younger than me.)


.... and yeah any pics??? (heh heh)
 

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You have to love Europe!

And you have to love travelling ALONE.

That's why I feel no-afraid if my girlfriend ends up dumping me. Because that's exactly what I would be doing...travelling ALONE to Europe. Doing the Hostel thing. And I'm only 38! Heck, I'm starting to feel tempted already! LOL.

Single mature men should do the travelling thing at least once a year. No doubt.
 

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Picture is worth a thousand words. got picture of her?
 

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Nothing says "I don't give a sh!t" more profoundly than pissing in some babes sink.....
:crackup:
 

englishman

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amoka said:
Picture is worth a thousand words. got picture of her?
Yep, got pictures, im me your email and I'll send em back.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SoCalMike

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that's awesome. seems once women hit their mid twenties they often wake up and start noticing older men.
 
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