"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Me not caring...

AlexTheGreat

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and people are saying WTF ??

OK, so sometimes I just say some random stuff that I find funny, or say something really stupid, just for the heck of it.

For exemple : this guy was giving a girl a massage. I just go "hey [guy's name], *click*" and mimic the bra unstrapping movement in the air (he was joking about it anyway). He's like, "oh, really slick, I bet you she didn'T see that" in a sarcastic tone. Then, he says "next time, why don't you just say '[name], unstrap her bra' ?" so just for the heck of it, I said that lol (in a joking tone, obviously)

Then he's like "you're so stupid". I just answer that I do that cuz I don't give a ****, which is true. But, they make it seem like a big frikken deal. :rolleyes:

So, what's the deal here ? I do those things usually, and they amuse me, and they're not that out of place, but I still get WTF-faces from some people ... what gives ? Do they actually think I don't know it's stupid or what ??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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Maybe he's trying to look like the "hero nice guy" in front of the girl. She might've been offended and that guy might have been trying to get on her good side...
 

ryan killa

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Lol-that is hilarious

However, I wouldn't let people openly know that "I don't care." Makes it sounds liek you are trying to convince yourself or something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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