"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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me goofy?

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WTF. i wrote the thread and there were even more than 10 views on it (no reply though) and suddenly the whole post got disappeared.

anyways here is the post again.


i m a pretty serious guy but deep down im goofy. my friends know that.
now the question is:

i have usuallly pic of Donkey (from Shrek) as my MSN Display pic. What do gals think abt guys like that?

I am 25 by the way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by sony007


i have usuallly pic of Donkey (from Shrek) as my MSN Display pic. What do gals think abt guys like that?
They think you're stupid and stubborn but well-hung.
 

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Re: Re: me goofy?

Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
They think you're stupid and stubborn but well-hung.

lol

well hung, mayb. stupid and stubborn, no way :D
 
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