"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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me and you are OVER

S-lemond

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ok so recently i have posted about me getting back together with my X from a year ago....well she was all over me (who isnt) and so ready for us to get back together, but she is still all over her just recent X...and this time, i really dont care nemore(so it seems) so i am going to formally approach her, and slowly but firmly say : we are not meant to be together....then ima going to walk off and she who eles there is to sarge out there!!!! IM free my Hommies!!! hahahahaha this highschool drama stuff is going to be put behind me!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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also ppl be looking out for parts of my book that i am going to be writing on affection and what not...
 

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i wish you could get a hold of maria my boi...becuase then i might not of been over! but yea...thats wasnt even almost beliveable...but me and sarah did have a rather inguldging convo last night
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
i wish you could get a hold of maria my boi...becuase then i might not of been over! but yea...thats wasnt even almost beliveable...but me and sarah did have a rather inguldging convo last night
:crackup: You actually think I'm joking! :crackup:

P.S. - I gotta tell you something about her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YO EZ..... I got to tell you something!





























Your girls a fffffffffffffffffffrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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bluelemond you are joking....and if you would pick up the phone...then maybe i would be able to hear what u gotta say bout her
 

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AC you would understand if you knew her i guess......becuase you see they both know her..so its easier for them to pick up on it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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