"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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me and the stripper

Bible_Belt

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The strippers that you can actually fvck are not high quality women. They may look great but that is all that they have going for them in life.

I agree. Go to a JC or university campus, and there will be more beautiful women than the local strip club. It's the psychology of other men wanting them that makes us want strippers, similar to the feelings of jealousy and social proof that we try to trigger in women.

With any woman you have sex with, there is always an outside chance that you could knock her up, and she could decide to be a part of your life for the next 18 years or so. af of mine knocked up a stripper, and although he ended up with a pretty good kid as a son, he still bought himself a lot more drama than what he would have had with any other woman.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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backbreaker said:
27 going on 17.. tisk tisk
You dont agree with me and thats fine. But flaming me isn't really a sign of maturity.
 

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ey all i gotta say is, dont let rules and regulations get in your way. You find the wierdest things in the wierdest palces. So for you personally you have no problem wiht the possibility of havin a relationship with a stripper, Hit her up and see wuts good with her. If all fails you might get some some she prob cuz not a lot of strippers give thier number out. ONE THING YOU CANNOT DO IS GET ***** WHIPPED. DO NOT THROW YOUR MONEY ON HER. STAY ON YOUR TOES. DO NOT LET HER HUSTLE YOU. She might really be intersted in you but keep your guards up to you find out her true motives. If you dont think you can handle that let it burn, if you can handle that go for it. Live a little you know
 

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I totally agree with you yungone.
This is called positive criticism.
As far as rules go, our society would not be the way it is right now if people had just sat around without going after what they want. Progress in life involves challenging rules.
 
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I agree with what another poster said a while ago, that strip clubs are good for rejection exercises - or a psychological break for the mean world of women out there.

But, since this guy was ignored for 45 minutes, it's not even offering that, but the point still is someone approached him. So, now that you have a positive experience of someone approaching you and hitting on you for a lap dance and sitting on you, should go out on the real world and pick up real girls rather than these strippers. This is just a 'break' you gave yourself to the harsh world of rejection out there.

I agree that strippers are not the best dating prospects, and should only be used to feel good about the idea someone may be hitting on you instead of them. I've never been to a strip club myself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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no problem. I read the other people resposnes to your problem. It seemed to me that people was projecting thier insecurities on to your problem.Nobody is better than anybody. Just because she is a stripper it doesnt she is a slut, it doesnt mean she is not either. Just make sure your emotions dont cloud your judgment, at the end of the day do what makes you happy for you, not for the so called pimps on here that was giving you advice. Just keep ya eyes open cuz females now days are skandelous...
 
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Bible_Belt said:
The strippers that you can actually fvck are not high quality women. They may look great but that is all that they have going for them in life.

I agree. Go to a JC or university campus, and there will be more beautiful women than the local strip club. It's the psychology of other men wanting them that makes us want strippers, similar to the feelings of jealousy and social proof that we try to trigger in women.
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Not true. It's the psychology of desperation and quick fix mentality.
It's more like a fantasy break from the real world, and people know this is fantasy stuff - mental masturbation, or whatever you call it.
 

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jeanpierresylla said:
Any thoughts or advice?
If you just want sex/good time with her, good luck. It sounds like you're in with a real shot. If you want a serious relationship, well, good luck again, but don't be surprised if it turns out ugly.

ps - I wouldn't worry about all the negativity you evoked. Some people just don't know how to respond any differently.
 

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Hey Pimp...you are being rude AGAIN???

Why don't u shut the FVCK up with that Bvllsvit Attitude of yours.... "Punk!"

We are tired of it...

No One is listening to your Smart Ass Remarks anyway.

Pimp-sicle said:
I wasn't insulting you, I was being realistic. Do you want me to lie to you, just so you can read what you want to hear, instead of what's really going on? If anything I was trying to save you the wasted time and energy (which I now realize that you will spend anyway) that you are going to put in to this broad.

If you sugar-coat sh*t it still stinks.




PIMP
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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